Caroline (Carol) Grace Aitchison
May 8, 1938 – September 23, 2025
Caroline “Carol” Grace Aitchison (nee Proctor) went to be with her Lord and Saviour on September 23, 2025, at the age of 87.
Born in Toronto on May 8, 1938, Carol was the daughter of the late W. Boyd and Marian (Robertson) Proctor. She grew up at the corner of Highway 9 and 27 in Schomberg, Ontario, and began her career teaching in the school across from the farm she would later move to. In 1965, she married Charles Aitchison and Carol lovingly devoted herself to raising their family and helping on the dairy farm.
Carol was the beloved wife of the late Charles Aitchison (1975). She was the cherished mother of Debbie (Wally) Simpson and proud stepmother of Geoff (Marlene) Aitchison and the late Michael Aitchison (2018) (Joy Ceroky). She will be lovingly remembered by her sister, Linda Boehler of British Columbia.
When her mother became ill and their parents passed away, Carol, though still young herself, helped raise her sister Linda. This early responsibility reflected the quiet strength and selfless care that would mark her entire life.
Carol was a woman of quiet strength, deep faith, and generous spirit. Carol attended Victory Baptist Church in Newmarket where she worshipped faithfully for more than 50 years. She also gave her time to Christian Womens’ club, Schomberg Horticultural Society, Meals On Wheels and countless tea gatherings and bus trips with friends and family.
In 2019 Carol moved to Leamington, Ontario to be closer to her daughter. She treasured her family and was especially proud of her ever – growing legacy: 18 grandchildren, 41 great- grandchildren and 2 great-great- grandchildren. Carol’s life was marked by faith, love, and generosity. She will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by her family, friends and all who had the privilege of knowing her. The family extends a heartfelt thank-you to the staff at the Leamington Mennonite Home where Carol was lovingly cared for and supported during her final years.
To depart to be with Christ, which is far better. Philippians 1:23
Visitation will be held on Friday September 26, 2025 at Rod Abrams Funeral Home, 1666 Tottenham Rd., Tottenham ON 905-936-3477 from 10am until time of Funeral Service in the chapel at 11am. A reception will follow in the funeral home’s Cliffside Hall. Interment to follow at Schomberg Union Cemetery.
If desired, donations can be made to Gideon’s International or Leamington Mennonite Home. Online condolences and memories may be shared at www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.
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Visitation
Rod Abrams Funeral Home
1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham Ontario L0G1W0
Friday September 26, 2025
10:00am - 11:00am
Funeral Service
Rod Abrams Funeral Home
1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham Ontario L0G1W0
Friday September 26, 202511:00am
Lois Groombridge says
Debbie my condolences to you and all the family on the passing of your mother. My mother always enjoyed their many chats over the phone. May she rest in peace.
Lois Groombridge
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you Lois!
Yes, Mom so enjoyed her chats with your Mom. I remember them being on the phone for so long!
My Aunt Linda and I were talking about your parents yesterday!
Sue & Gerald Bechard says
Debbie & Wally + Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy, Sharing in your sorrow with love and friendship,
May all your memories bring you comfort as you grieve your loss. Huge hugs Deb
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you! It’s been a rough week as you know being through it before too. Mom’s hold such a special part in our hearts.
Carol (Coulter)Silverman says
Please accept my sincere condolences. Miss Proctor was my Schomberg Public School teacher 65 years ago. I still remember her with such fondness. I know Miss Proctor was loved by all her students. I don’t think she ever raised her voice to any of us. May she rest in peace. Fondly Carol Coulter
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you so much! I love hearing stories from her previous students
Eleonora Schmied says
The Schomberg Horticultural Society wishes to send condolences to Carol’s family and friends. “Wishing you peace and comfort in these difficult days.”
Carol was a revered ‘life member’ of the Society, who volunteered and served in the Community for many years.
“Gone, but never far from our thoughts.” Deepest sympathy from all our members, everyone is saddened by your loss.
On behalf of the Board of Directors, Eleonora Schmied, President SHS
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you! She certainly enjoyed her plants and flowers. Schomberg Horticulture was a big part of her life that she really enjoyed.
Scherer says
Dear Debbie, Wally and all your family
Our sincere sympathy on the loss of your dear Mom, Grandmother, Great-grandmother. Thinking of you as you celebrate her life.
Peter and Linda Scherer
Debbie Simpson says
Thanks so much Pete and Linda!
David and Maureen Archibald and family says
Our prayers are with all the family.
Carol was always pleasant to all.
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you!
Laurie and George elliott says
So sorry to hear of your loss many fond memories and a great neighbour for many years in schomberg
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you! Good to see Trish again and hear about you all.
Your family had a big part in Mom’s house, from building it to painting the inside! I think George also made a cabinet for her to match her dining set?
Herb and Mary Lou Enns says
Dear Debbie and Wally, our deepest condolences on the passing of your dear Mom. From reading her life story, it’s obvious she was a wonderful mother and woman to all who knew her. You will surely miss your daily visits with her, but may you cherish many fond memories to carry you through this time of grief and loss.
Sincerely, Herb and Mary Lou Enns
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you! Yes, she certainly was a wonderful Mother and friend and I will miss her terribly. Thankful for all the memories!
Martha Janzen says
Dear Debbie and family. May God’s loving arms hold you close and give you comfort and peace.
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you. We’re so thankful for all the prayers of comfort. She enjoyed the hymn sings at the Home very much when her mind was able to take it in better.
Bonnie O'Hara says
So sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. She was a lovely lady. Knew her from Schomberg Horticultural Society. Thoughts & prayers to all her family.
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you! Yes, she enjoyed the Horticulture Society very much.
Shelley Enns says
Offering our deepest condolences to Debbie, Wally and the rest of the family. Sincerely, Art & Erna Warkentin, Steve & Shelley Enns and families
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you all!
Cameron Lindsey says
Sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. She was a strong, caring lady who loved her family deeply. Condolences to all of her family.
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you very much!
Janet and Clarence says
We’re so sorry for your loss Debbie and family. We’ll be praying that the peace that comes from the “God of all comfort” will cover you in this sad time.
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you! We have certainly felt the prayers of comfort!
Elizabeth Pederson says
Debbie- Your mom’s home was like my home in my teen years and early 20’s. She always welcomed me with food and her special grin. I have SO many wonderful memories in her home. She did such a good job raising my best friend as a single mom. I know she will be greatly missed by you especially- but also her grandchildren as well! My heartfelt sympathies to ALL of you.
Debbie Simpson says
Thank you! Our Mothers are enjoying Jesus together! What a comfort that we will join them someday!