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Jim Ellsmere

In Memorial

Ellsmere JimEllsmere: Jim,
Passed away peacefully with his family by his side at Matthews House Hospice, on Thursday September 25, 2025. Jim Ellsmere at the age of 84 years, beloved husband of Diane Ellsmere (nee: Cairns). Loving father of Kimberly Ellsmere-Young (Michael), Kristi Ellsmere-Ihasz (Andrew), and the late Kelly Tersigni. Proud grandfather to Melissa (Adam), Kassie (Sarah), Kyler and Jordyn. Dear great grandfather of Noah and Millie. Sadly missed by his siblings Barbara Ann Dunsmore (the late Bud), Don Ellsmere (Shirley), Nick Ellsmere (Lynn), Chris Ellsmere (Bev), Dennis Ellsmere (Cheryl Starr), Connie Wood (Larry) and Beth Clark (Bruce). Fondly remembered by his brother in law Tom Cairns (Pat), and their son Brian. Forever in the hearts of his nieces, nephews, extended family, friends, and his working buddy Al Scott (Anne).

Over the last 14 years, Jim has provided many handyman services in his community of Tecumseth Pines repairing doors, decks, fences and screens. Jim was also a dedicated member of Anytime Fitness in Tottenham and an avid golfer. He will be greatly missed.
Cremation has taken place. A private family Graveside service will be held at Midhurst Union Cemetery. If desired, donations in Jim’s memory may be made to Matthews House Hospice. Arrangements entrusted to Rod Abrams Funeral Home Tottenham 905-936-3477. Online condolences and memories may be left for the family at www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.

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  1. Ryan says

    October 13, 2025 at 10:16 am

    My condolences to Diane and her family.
    Jim would always have a ‘thumbs up’ for me when I saw him working at The Pines. I always admired his work ethic. He will be missed.

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  2. Terry Coles says

    October 12, 2025 at 2:04 am

    Terry,

    Always thought the world of Jim . Always upbeat. and I will miss him. May he rest in peace. My condolences to the rest of the family.

    Terry

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  3. KarenDicresce says

    October 4, 2025 at 2:05 pm

    To Diane and Family – our prayers are with you – Karen/Julio Di Cresce

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  4. George and Marilyn Clarke says

    October 4, 2025 at 11:10 am

    We are so sad to hear of Jim’s passing. He was well loved in the Pines, and will be missed. Condolences to Diane and the entire family.

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  5. pamela stratton says

    October 3, 2025 at 4:11 pm

    My heartfelt condolences Diane, to you and all of your family, who I got to know through Jim’s often hilarious stories. He always brought a smile with him when he arrived every day. He was a treasure to be around.

    with sympathy Pam (stratton)

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    • Kathy Brown says

      October 5, 2025 at 4:27 pm

      My condolences to you Diane and your family. Jim was always so kind and helpful to warren and I when we needed help and to me after Warren’s passing. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

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  6. Lynda & Russ THAIN says

    October 3, 2025 at 4:01 pm

    Dear Diane and Family,,We extend our deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved Jim. We remember him as an outgoing, kind and caring man who was always willing to extend a helping hand to others. May you treasure your memories of Jim and his love that he had for his family. A gentle man, and a true gentleman.
    Lynda and Russ Thain,,

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  7. Howard and Sharon Venning says

    October 3, 2025 at 1:56 pm

    Diane and family
    Our deepest condolences to all. Jim would often come into the coffee shop in Bolton and we always had a good talk. So sorry to hear of his passing. We will miss seeing him. May He rest in peace.

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  8. Linda Lynar says

    October 1, 2025 at 11:27 pm

    Diane and family

    So sorry to hear about Jim, he will be greatly missed.

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  9. Ron & Ilona Jones says

    October 1, 2025 at 11:13 am

    Jim leaves behind a loving, supportive family and many friends who have benefited from his compassion and skills. We have been blessed by this valuable neighbour for over 16 years. Conversations were always enjoyable, accented by his balanced nature and our shared sense of humour. He has left behind a good name, many accomplishments and impressive marks in our little community.
    His passing has left a hole in many hearts.
    Our deepest condolences to Diane & family
    Ron & Ilona Jones.

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  10. Jean Mason says

    October 1, 2025 at 10:24 am

    Sincere condolences for you Diane and your family. We have good memories of times when we had together. Darren especially when they worked together.

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  11. Sharon Harrison says

    September 30, 2025 at 11:38 pm

    Friends for over 60 years. Hugs to all. No more suffering.

    Love Sharon

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  12. Jim and Heidi Sant says

    September 30, 2025 at 9:59 pm

    Diane and family
    Our most sincere condolences to you and your family.
    Jim will be dearly missed.
    Sending you our love

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  13. Brian & Brenda says

    September 29, 2025 at 2:22 pm

    Dear Dianne & Family
    Our condolences to you and your entire family for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Jim was loved by so many
    And will be missed. Not here with us now but forever in our hearts.

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  14. Ruth Upward says

    September 29, 2025 at 2:02 pm

    Diane and family – Remember that your loss is shared by many friends who care and that you’re in our thoughts and hearts and in our every prayer.
    May you find the courage to face tomorrow with the love that surrounds you today.
    He will be surely missed in the Pines, we loved his sense of humour and of course his skills with drywall mud!
    Ruth and Alan

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  15. Jeannie Taylor says

    September 28, 2025 at 9:20 pm

    So sad to hear of your lovely Dads departure Kristi, know that we’re here for you and the whole family. Sending a gentle hug to your special Mom Diane.
    Jeannie, Dan & Daniel
    “May you find peace and joy with each butterfly that passes by”

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  16. Mike & Megan Di Matteo says

    September 28, 2025 at 5:33 pm

    Our condolences to the Ellsmere Family. Jim was a cherished part of our morning routine at the gym. His warm smile and friendly presence were always a welcome start to the day. He will be deeply missed.

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  17. John & Lynn Knapik says

    September 28, 2025 at 12:43 pm

    Our sincere condolences Diane, so very sorry to hear of Jim’s passing.

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  18. Eileen Ellison says

    September 28, 2025 at 11:38 am

    We were really upset to hear about Jim. Please know that our thoughts are with you during this difficult time Diane, Kim, Kristi and family.

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  19. The Ellison Family says

    September 28, 2025 at 8:53 am

    Diane we’re very sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Mom has fond memories of life on Trellis Court when we were neighbours and you and Jim were working so hard to raise your beautiful girls. We remember Dad and Jim having their discussions about the politics of the day and agreeing to disagree while having great laughs (and a few glasses of whisky!). We’re grateful to have had both you and Jim as lifelong friends.

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  20. Dwayne & Sheri says

    September 27, 2025 at 9:56 pm

    Our deepest condolences to you and your entire family Kristi. Sending hugs to everyone ❤️
    Cherish the memories ❤️❤️

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    • Ashley Harding, Justin Lalonde says

      September 30, 2025 at 6:13 pm

      Diane, Kristi, Andy, & Jordyn

      Deepest sympathies to you all. Nothing I can say will ease your pain. But i am truly sorry for your loss. Jim was a large part of my life, thanks to being an honourary family member, and he was an honest man who loved his family. He was always there to lend a helping hand to others, and be the life of the party. His love for golf will always be a memory i have of him. Treasure all the memories and moments.

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  21. Paula, Mike and Ashley says

    September 27, 2025 at 8:10 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers Kristi to you, Andy, Jordyn and your mom, and family, Your dad was a great man always nice to talk to. He will be greatly missed.

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