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Rebecca Polsinelli

In Memorial

Polsinelli, Rebecca – Suddenly at her home March 24th 2023, Rebecca passed away at the age of 40. She leaves behind her devoted husband Stefano Polsinelli and her beloved daughter Marita Mae. Dear daughter of Jan and Ian Bennett. Loved sister of Christopher (Kate), Katie (Alfredo), Amy (Nick) and Emily (Steve). Fun Auntie Bex to Nicolas, Nadia, Miguel, Jack, Vanessa, Benjamin, Parker, Hudson, Harry, Charlotte and Jane. Missed by her parents in law Gina and Frank Polsinelli. Sister in law to John (Sandra) and Monica (Darren). Dearly missed by many friends and extended family. Watched over and predeceased by Nanny and Grandad Bennett, Grandma James, and Aunty Lynn.
The family will greet friends at Rod Abrams Funeral Home, 1666 Tottenham Road Tottenham, Friday March 31, 2023 from 1:00pm -3:00pm and 5:00pm – 7:00pm. A Celebration of Life for Becky will take place in London Ontario on Saturday April 15,2023 from 1-4pm at the Byron Legion. In lieu of flowers a fund has been set up for Marita. E-transfers can be sent to: [email protected]
To leave expressions of sympathy or to share memories of Rebecca, please visit www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com

Service

Rebecca Polsinelli - Memorial Visitation

Rod Abrams Funeral Home

1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham, ON L0G1W0

Friday March 31, 2023

1:00pm - 3:00pm

Friday March 31, 2023

5:00pm - 7:00pm

Rebecca Polsinelli - Celebration of Life

Byron-Springbank Legion Branch 533

1276 Commissioners Rd W, London, ON N6K 1E1

Saturday April 15,2023

1:00pm - 4:00pm

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  1. Joanne & Walter Randon says

    April 24, 2023 at 5:14 pm

    Stefano and Family… We are so sorry to hear about the passing of your wife.. our deepest sympathy to you and your family… At this difficult time Walter & Joanne Randon & family

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  2. Anita Rasmussen says

    April 8, 2023 at 2:37 pm

    My sincere condolences to Jan, Ian and family as well as Stefano and Marita. I know there are no words that help at this time but please know that my thoughts are with you all. She was an integral part of a very close and caring family and I hope that love will hold you together at this extremely difficult time.
    Sincerely,
    Anita Rasmussen

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  3. Jane Di Sabato (Penson) says

    April 6, 2023 at 10:17 pm

    Dear Ian and Jan
    Anita Rasmussen sent me the sad news. I wanted to offer my condolences to you all. My thoughts are with you.
    Jane Di Sabato (née Penson)

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  4. Arnold Hull says

    April 4, 2023 at 6:54 pm

    My sincere condolence to Jan, Ian, The Bennet family as well as Stefano Polsinelli and Marita Mae.
    Rebecca leaves a remarkable legacy for all who knew her.

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  5. Lena Shaw says

    April 1, 2023 at 11:54 am

    My deepest condolences to Bennett and Polsinelli families. My heart aches for you. Becky was a beautiful soul inside and out.

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  6. Shana kassam says

    March 31, 2023 at 8:25 pm

    We were saddened to hear about the passing of Becky. RIP.

    Please accept our sincere condolences.

    Shana, Mohmud, Alisha and Safia Kassam

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  7. Stacey Crowther says

    March 31, 2023 at 3:11 pm

    My sincere condolences to Stefano, Mari, and family. The world has lost a very special person way too soon and she will be missed by so many. Becky could always made me laugh and I loved hearing about her beloved animlas and photography. Most of all, I have loved watching Becky become a mother and follow the beautiful journey between mother and daughter. I will miss her deeply and will have everyone in my thoughts.

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  8. Sheila Bell says

    March 31, 2023 at 11:08 am

    Words cannot express our deepest condolences to all of Becky’s family and friends. Always remember the good times.

    Richard and Sheila Bell

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  9. Cicchini Joanne says

    March 30, 2023 at 9:52 pm

    Stefano, Marita and family,
    Onorio and I and the whole family offer our sincere condolences on Becky’s passing. Hold on to your beautiful memories , she will always be with you. Keeping the whole family in our prayers and sending hugs.
    Joanne & Onorio Cicchini

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  10. Morris Piccone says

    March 30, 2023 at 5:41 pm

    Our deepest condolences to Stefano, Marita and family.

    Morris and Josie Piccone and Family

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  11. Lucia Spadaro says

    March 30, 2023 at 12:31 pm

    Our deepest condolences to the Polsinelli family. May Rebecca Rest in Peace.
    Spadaro Family

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  12. Domenic Ruzza says

    March 29, 2023 at 12:23 pm

    I’m so very sorry for your loss Stefano and Marita and family may she rest in eternal peace and comfort God bless

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  13. Derrick An says

    March 29, 2023 at 10:58 am

    My heart is broken to hear of Beckie’s passing. I met Beckie when Emily was studying at UofT with me. Beckie made her home so inviting and welcoming to me every time I’d come over to hang out – we watched movies, played games, had dinner together – I discovered shake and bake chicken at Beckie’s with Emily. Revolutionary!

    Sending my love to Emily, Stefano, Marita and the whole Bennett family as you make it through this very difficult time.

    All my love,

    Derrick

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  14. Sandrina Lovell says

    March 29, 2023 at 10:25 am

    So very sorry and saddened to learn of Becky’s sudden passing. We offer our most sincere condolences to Stephano, Marita, Frank and Gina. Monica and Johnny. Hope the memories of all the fun times you shared as a family help you through this difficult time.
    Prayers and God’s blessings to you all.
    ❤️❤️❤️
    Peter and Sandi Lovell

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  15. The Cicuttini family says

    March 29, 2023 at 7:18 am

    Our condolences to all the family. Keep your memories close to your heart.

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  16. Claire & Goyo Araiza , Ireland says

    March 29, 2023 at 3:33 am

    Our sincere condolences to all of Becky’s family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. I only met Becky a couple of times but what a bright light she was and I hope that continues to shine in your memories of her. May she rest in peace.

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  17. Rachel Parking (Gilbert) says

    March 29, 2023 at 12:05 am

    My deepest condolences to Stefano, Marita and the Bennet and Polsinelli families. I first met Becky at Medway High School and will forever remember her singing Karma Chameleon to me almost daily! Then I went to Fanshawe with her and Stefano. What a wonderful couple. She will be sorely missed.

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  18. Kerri Dixon says

    March 28, 2023 at 11:22 pm

    Jan & Family,
    When I think of you Jan, I always remember the love and joy that radiated when you spoke of your children and grandchildren. I am heartbroken to hear of the passing of your dear Becky. Sending love and sympathy to each of you as you navigate this tremendous loss. ❤️
    Kerri Dixon

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  19. Bibi kersten says

    March 28, 2023 at 11:04 pm

    This was such shocking news. Becky was always so kind. May she live on in her adorable daughter.

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  20. Nada Osman says

    March 28, 2023 at 9:12 pm

    I am heartbroken to hear we lost a beautiful person. My deepest condolences to Stefano, Marita and family. I will never forget her kind heart. May she rest in peace Allahyirhama.

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  21. Nicole (Bulanda) Czyz & Family says

    March 28, 2023 at 7:55 pm

    Our deepest condolences during this heartbreaking time. Becky was a truly kind hearted person, who always accepted you as you were. She will be deeply missed by many who’ve had the pleasure to know her. Sending lots of love and strength to everyone affected by this tragic loss

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  22. Maureen ONeill says

    March 28, 2023 at 6:41 pm

    Jan and family
    I was shocked and saddened to hear of Becky’s passing. It was so wonderful catching up a couple of weeks ago and hearing all about your kids and their families. This is heartbreaking news. May she rest in peace. Maureen

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  23. Gail Morgan says

    March 28, 2023 at 5:21 pm

    Our sincere condolences to the Polsinelli and Bennett families. The Polsinelli family were neighbours of ours when they lived on the 2nd before moving to Hwy 9.
    RIP Rebecca
    Tom and Gail Morgan

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  24. Heather Lazzaro (Forbes) says

    March 28, 2023 at 5:13 pm

    Sending my deepest condolences to your famalies during this difficult time. I first met Becky at Medway and was drawn to her quick wit and story telling abilities. I was lucky that our paths crossed a handful of times over the years since highschool. She was always fun to be around, had a big heart and loved her family and pets deeply. She will be missed.

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  25. Jodi Kulinitch says

    March 28, 2023 at 2:08 pm

    I am speechless after hearing about the passing of Becky. Sending so much love and condolences to the family. Becky was such a light, always funny and quick witted – she will be missed.

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  26. Drew McIntyre says

    March 28, 2023 at 2:06 pm

    Heartbroken to hear this news. My sincerest condolences to Stefano, Marita, and family. Becky was a wonderful soul. May she rest in peace.

    Reply
  27. John & Diane Harrett says

    March 28, 2023 at 10:27 am

    Stephano,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. Becky was a great Mom and will be truly missed.

    Reply
  28. Diane O'Shea says

    March 28, 2023 at 8:52 am

    Dear Friend Jan and family
    My heart aches for you and your loss. Shannon sent me the news. I feel very very sad for you and all your family. Please know you are very much in my thoughts and prayers.
    Diane O’Shea

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  29. Michelle Andrews says

    March 28, 2023 at 7:01 am

    My heart is so deeply sorry for the loss in your families. My hope is that you are comforted by eachother in this difficult time. Sending you all love and support from across the miles.
    ❤️Michelle, Scott and Sam

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  30. Beth and Peter Krudys says

    March 27, 2023 at 10:09 pm

    Stefano, we are so very sorry. Your friends in Boston are thinking of you, your beautiful daughter, and your loved ones during this difficult time.

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  31. Ivor & Ginny Cathcart says

    March 27, 2023 at 8:17 pm

    Dear Stefano, we are so very saddened and offer our sincere condolences to you and your family. Holding you close to our hearts and in our prayers.

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  32. Lisa Bourgard (Slaven) says

    March 27, 2023 at 7:50 pm

    Bennett family,
    My heart is so heavy as I write my condolences to each and every one of you. The love in your family is so strong and the loss of Rebecca is devastating. To Marita Mae and Stefano, I am holding extra space in my heart for you. Sending all the love. xo

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  33. Glenda, and Walter James says

    March 27, 2023 at 7:39 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to Becky’s family. She is now in Gramma Mary’s loving arms.

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  34. Patricia Bastasin says

    March 27, 2023 at 5:41 pm

    Our deepest condolences for your loss Stefano. May you be surround by loved ones who will cherish Becky’s memories today and always. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Marita. ❤️

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  35. Pierino Mattucci says

    March 27, 2023 at 5:41 pm

    I’m am deeply saddened and express my sincerest condolences to the Polsinelli family on their regrettable loss of a wife, mother, and daughter Rebecca. I will keep you in my prayers during this difficult time.

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  36. Nicole Jones (Mme Jones) says

    March 27, 2023 at 3:50 pm

    My heart goes out to Mari and her family <3 I am truly sorry for your loss. My prayers and condolences to all of you during this difficult time.

    Reply
  37. Edite Dar says

    March 27, 2023 at 3:05 pm

    Stefano, please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family. My prayers are with you.

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  38. Pamela Iafrate says

    March 27, 2023 at 2:48 pm

    Rimarrà sempre nei nostri cuori! E veglierà sempre su Te e Marita.
    Un abbraccio da Tutti Noi a tutti Voi ❤️
    Vi siamo vicini anche da qui!

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  39. Shannon Loftus and family says

    March 27, 2023 at 12:58 pm

    My heart is heavy for your entire family. I’m thinking of you all during this very difficult time. May you cherish your memories and know how many people love Becky. Sending you all my love and support.

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  40. Erika Blair says

    March 27, 2023 at 12:55 pm

    My condolences to Rebecca’s family , friends and anyone she touched . I enjoyed watching her become a mother and truly enjoyed all her videos and pictures . I first met , Rebecca many years ago as her wonderful, husband was part of my sons coaching staff in hockey . These two devoted themselves to our team even though they did not have a child of their own at that time. Rebecca was warm, funny and so kind! Always taking pictures and sending them to us . Her passing is felt by so many people in our community. I’m sending so much love and strength.
    Rest easy, Bex

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  41. Miriam Kominar says

    March 27, 2023 at 12:45 pm

    To the Bennett and Polsinelli families,
    I’m so very sad to hear of Becky’s passing. My heart is with you in this difficult time. May her memory bring you joy and comfort always.

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  42. Julie Hill says

    March 27, 2023 at 12:31 pm

    I am Marita’s Kindergarten teacher. I send my deepest condolences to sweet Mari, her Dad and family. May you always keep Rebecca in your memories. Love is eternal.

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    • Jan Bennett says

      March 28, 2023 at 6:42 am

      Julie – Mari’s Mima and Poppa want you to take extra care of our sweet girl. She will be spending a large part of her day with you and we know you will be a very important person in her life going forward.

      Reply
  43. Karen Andrews says

    March 27, 2023 at 12:21 pm

    Stefano, I am so sorry to hear of Becky’s passing. Keeping you and Mari in my thoughts and prayers and sending hugs.

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  44. Attilio & Liliana Carpico says

    March 27, 2023 at 11:44 am

    Our deepest condolences during this difficult time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. RIP Becky. ️

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  45. Giuseppe Polsinelli says

    March 27, 2023 at 11:32 am

    Un abbraccio fortissimo a tutti voi,le parole non potranno mai coprire questa grande mancanza,non posso fare altro che abbracciarvi nel mio cuore.
    Zio Giuseppe Polsinelli e Famiglia

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  46. Jen Massé and family says

    March 27, 2023 at 10:32 am

    Sending both families our hearfelt condolences, I hope the cherished memories that you have of her come flooding back to you and you can find comfort and peace when sharing with friends and family over the next few weeks. Sending Love xo

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  47. The Grossi Family says

    March 27, 2023 at 10:05 am

    She was a great person, an amazing mother and wife to you guys! She’s showed Marita the very best of everything and helped create a strong confident amazing little girl! We are so saddened by this and so very sorry for your loss! We love you guys! And are here if you need anything! ❤️ ❤️

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  48. Shannon O’Shea Ross says

    March 27, 2023 at 9:51 am

    Sending my most heartfelt condolences to the entire family, especially the dear Bennett crew. I’m without words after reading about this devastating loss. May God hold all of you close in the days ahead.
    ♥️

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  49. Lori Smith says

    March 27, 2023 at 9:37 am

    Oh Jen and Ian I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter. Know that my heart and thoughts are with you.

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  50. Carly Oliver says

    March 27, 2023 at 8:35 am

    I am absolutely broken to learn about this. Offering sincere and loving condolences. I have no words, I’m so very sorry. Sending all my love, thoughts & prayers.
    Carly Oliver and family.

    Reply
  51. Sally says

    March 27, 2023 at 8:35 am

    Our hearts are broken at this news. Please know the Thomson family have you in our hearts and prayers.

    Reply
  52. Roxanne Anderson says

    March 27, 2023 at 8:09 am

    I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. My heart is broken for you. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Sending big hugs and prayers. ❤️❤️❤️

    Reply
  53. Peggy Schott says

    March 27, 2023 at 8:05 am

    I am so sorry to see your post this morning. My heart hurts for you all.

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    • Elena & Alfonso Riolo says

      March 28, 2023 at 8:03 am

      Stefano, words can not express how saddened and heartbroken we are about Becky’s passing. Cherish and treasure all your memories, as they will give you strength. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Marita and the family.

      Reply
  54. Emily Llew-Williams says

    March 26, 2023 at 11:09 pm

    We are so incredibly saddened by this loss. We have such fond memories of Becky, and what an amazing and fun-loving person she was. Our family sends the sincerest of condolences. She was a life-force, incredible human being, and will never be forgotten. ♡♡♡

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  55. Cathy Tripp says

    March 26, 2023 at 10:57 pm

    Our heartfelt condolences to Jan, Ian and extended family.

    Reply

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