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Steve Healy

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Healy: Stephen Lawrence (Steve),
Suddenly on Saturday, November 26th, 2011.  Steve Healy, in his 37th year, beloved husband of Sherry. Loving father of Kayla and Tristen.  Dear son of Kay Healy (Jim Stone) and Daniel Healy.  Loving brother of  Teresa Healy (Tom Juravich), Anne Healy (Gavin Leeb), and Chris (Donna) Healy.  Fondly remembered by his brother-in-law Kevin McColgan.  Sadly missed by his nieces and nephews: Natasha, Ashley, Colin, and Tighe.  Remembered with love by his many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.
Resting at Rod Abrams Funeral Home, 1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham, 905-936-3477 on Thursday, December 1st, 2011 from 2-4 and 7-9 pm.  Funeral service will be held in the chapel, 11:00am Friday, December 2nd, 2011 followed by interment in Allston Union Cemetery.  In lieu of flowers, a trust account (CIBC, Transit #04452, Account # 7914431) has been established in Kayla and Tristen’s names. Donations to that account would be appreciated by the family. www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com

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  1. Andrew Graham says

    February 27, 2023 at 2:28 pm

    I am very sad to hear about Steves passing. I remember Steve from high school, he always had a smile and was funny. My condolences to the family. Steve will never be forgotten

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  6. florence says

    May 11, 2014 at 1:45 am

    my favorite memory of Steve was went he and Andrew come to see me on my birthday and spend the 3 days just us hang out or watch him play sport at our high school or just stand up for me. He had a heart and a wonderful soul that this world has lost and someone who god want to take back to make the star show brighter then they were but cry over the fact that he took a parent and father and someone who wish that..

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  7. Stan Eagles says

    August 3, 2012 at 2:34 pm

    Your spirit will always live on. As I type this message I cannot help but to feel you near. You were a great co-worker and a good friend. Take care Steve and know that you touched and influenced many.

    Stan Eagles

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  8. Miriam says

    December 8, 2011 at 9:26 pm

    I had the honor of establishing a friendship with you many years ago. You have always been someone special to me. I am so grateful that after not having had communication for 12 years, that we recently were able to talk again. You will always be in my thoughts. RIP Steve

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  9. Annonymous says

    December 3, 2011 at 8:56 pm

    Kay, please accept my heart felt condolences on the passing of your son Steven. I never knew Steve – just what you shared with me about him – I wish you peace at this terrible time of sorrow and may God grant you the understanding to go forward in this life without your son.

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  10. Chris Spencer says

    December 2, 2011 at 11:44 pm

    I has been many years since the elementary school days however I’ve never forgotten Steve and all the fun times we had. This is shocking news and both my thoughts and prayers are with his family. Steve will never be forgotten.

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  11. Bill Ecker says

    December 2, 2011 at 1:55 pm

    My heart was filled with great sadness this pass week. Although we had not spoken much over the last few years we still would pass by each other while at Zehers and say hi. Instantly his big smile would make me grin. You have always been a kind and gentle heart, may you continue to carry your smile with you and share it with all your loved ones who went befor you. Your family will stay in my heart and prayers and Steve you will never be forgotten. May you now rest in peace.

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  12. Erin Forrester says

    December 2, 2011 at 1:13 pm

    Words simply cannot express the shock and sadness I feel. Sherry, my thoughts and prayers are with you your girls. He will never be forgotten!

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  13. Liz Dobinson says

    December 2, 2011 at 12:53 pm

    Steve, you will be missed!
    Trapped in the glorious years
    within the memory of belief, lost of all grief.
    Take the reasons,
    which once seemed so clear,
    but never mind, you have nothing to fear.
    For you my friend will be, forever young,
    Forever in the heart of memories.

    Lost in the glory of all time,
    the wisdom was there within that smile,
    You see you could have told us,
    there within lies the mystery.

    So shed a smile, and grin a tear,
    For you my friend, will be,
    Forever young, Forever young.
    Forever in the heart of memory,
    We see not through or misery.
    Forever young, forever young.
    There’s a new angel tonight.

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  14. Heather Farrow says

    December 2, 2011 at 12:22 pm

    I was very sorry to hear of Steve’s passing. My thoughts and love go to all the family. Thinking of you at this time.

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  15. Joan Hammond says

    December 2, 2011 at 9:59 am

    Dear Kay,
    I didn’t know Steve, but what a beautiful looking boy.. my heart is heavy for you, as there is no greater pain than losing a child,and such a beautiful boy .. you can tell that he was so well loved by all the friends who came to visit him in his passing and all the wonderful words that every one hs said,but I am sure that what ever is said will not heal the pain.but he is just away and you willsee him again and hold him in your arms. May he rest in peace….
    Love Joan Hammond( Pratt )

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  16. William Beck says

    December 1, 2011 at 4:43 pm

    A dynamite guy with a big big heart. My condolences to the family.

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  17. Andrew Leroux says

    December 1, 2011 at 3:41 pm

    Steve Healy,

    I just heard the news and I immediately stopped what i was doing. An hour has passed and you are still on my mind. This is a testament to the impact you had and still have on everybody and anybody who crossed your path. Steve you always filled the room and the dance floor with such positive energy. My fond memories include, Banting Memorial high school just hanging out in the cafeteria:) to dancing the night away in the city. Knowing you was a privileged and you will not be soon forgotten.

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  18. Cameron Bright says

    December 1, 2011 at 10:42 am

    Words can not describe this feeling. Steve I will miss you buddy! All the good times we have had growing up. The most memorable was you cutting a rug on electric circus back in the day. My deepest condolences to the Healy family. Steve rest in peace, love you man.

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  19. Jason J. Bowman says

    December 1, 2011 at 8:59 am

    Rest in Peace, Steve. My sincere condolences to his family.

    His shocking and tragic passing reminds me that each day we are each alive, is indeed a gift; we need to aspire to live each day we are given to the fullest. I remember Steve doing that, and will miss him.

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  20. Patricia Tanner says

    December 1, 2011 at 8:46 am

    Teresa, my sympathies and prayers to you and your family during this time of sudden tragedy.
    Condolences, Pat

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  21. Tina Barzo says

    December 1, 2011 at 12:22 am

    It’s been 20 years since I had the fortune to share time with Steve, and be close to this wonderful family, as they took me into their hearts and home in high school. I am truly sorry I have not kept in touch. My heart is broken for everyone, for the loss of Steve and his great big heart and beautiful spirit, that now becomes even more a part of all of us who have been touched by him. It’s true that we don’t know what we have til it’s gone. Alas, he is never to be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are for the family and circle of friends, and Steve, wherever you are right now, as raw and tender as it is all right now – YOU ARE LOVED… YOU ARE LOVED… YOU ARE LOVED. May you be at peace. Tina

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  22. Tanya Horan-Saulnier says

    December 1, 2011 at 12:18 am

    Words can not express how sad I was to learn of Stephen’s passing. I have known him since our first day in kindergarten. He walked up and said “Hi, I’am Stehpen do want to be friends?” He was my kindergarten b/f! We gave each other many bruises our years at FX.
    I will remember the boy with that devilish grin and those big blues eyes. But most of all I will remember Stephen’s heart (he stood up for me many times) he was a good friend.
    My husband Rob worked with Stephen at F&P,and he was always there if you needed him, and had a kind word for everyone. To Stephen’s Family you are all in our prayers.
    I will remember you fondly dear friend.
    Hugs, Tanya

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  23. Lee & Tim Doyle says

    November 30, 2011 at 11:00 pm

    I cannot believe that God needed to call Steve from us so early in his life. I remember him from the day he was born & how much he and Tracey played together during those early years. It doesn’t seem like it was that long ago! His passing will leave a huge whole in the family. May he rest in peace.

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  24. Henry & Joan Kwiatkowski says

    November 30, 2011 at 10:19 pm

    Kay:
    We are so sorry to hear of Steve’s passing. May Our Heavenly Father give you and your family the strength to help carry you through your hour of need.
    God bless you all and Rest In Peace Steve.

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  25. Laurie Bell says

    November 30, 2011 at 10:09 pm

    I share the grief and mourning at our loss of dear Steven. Sweet memories of a man I always knew as a loving Healy son and brother.

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  26. Dianne says

    November 30, 2011 at 9:56 pm

    My deepest sympathy goes out to you Kay and Mr.Stone for the loss of your son. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  27. Erin Bartley Paterson says

    November 30, 2011 at 6:39 pm

    Freedom is the oxygen of the soul. ~Moshe Dayan- Because the soul is freedom. Rest assured Steve ,we will watch over you’re Angels also.

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  28. Kelly Wickett says

    November 30, 2011 at 4:57 pm

    Words can’t express the sadness I felt when hearing of Steve’s passing. A well known personality growing up in Tottenham, everyone knew that smile. My thoughts and prayers go out to Sherry, his daughters and family. May time heal your tender hearts and keep your best memories strongest.

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  29. Tracey H says

    November 30, 2011 at 4:31 pm

    I can’t believe that you are gone. My condolences to your mom, wife and kids and your siblings. I haven’t seen you in many years although I still remember all the things that we used to get into when we were young. Those were some of the best times. Thinking of you all and keeping you in my prayers.

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  30. Nikki Savji says

    November 30, 2011 at 4:18 pm

    My deepest condolences to you and your family…..may peace be with you during this difficult period.

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  31. Chi-Chi Hodgson says

    November 30, 2011 at 3:59 pm

    To Teresa & Tom,

    Thinking of you at this time of sorrow. With heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

    Chi-Chi Hodgson

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  32. Vanessa and Mike says

    November 30, 2011 at 1:38 pm

    Sherry and family, our prayers go out to you and your family in this sad time.
    We know that he will remain in our hearts for ever

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  33. Vanessa and Mike says

    November 30, 2011 at 1:28 pm

    Chris and family, our deepest condolences go to all of you…Steve was a wonderful and thoughful person and he will be greatly missed by all who knew him

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  34. Kelly says

    November 30, 2011 at 12:04 pm

    The last time I saw you it was at the medical center my kids were acting crazy and you just gave me that Smile and it was like magic my stressed vanished…
    I hope you have found peace my thoughts and prayers are with your family.
    RIP Steve

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  35. Trevor H says

    November 30, 2011 at 2:20 am

    Steve was a boy i looked uped to (literaly) growing up in Tottenham, many felt the same way.watching him dance live at much music was one thing i will never forget…Man! that boy could dance.we will all Miss you steve.

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  36. Teresa Bodden says

    November 30, 2011 at 1:06 am

    Chris and family,I have worked with Steve for the last 11 years..he became more than a co-worker he became a friend…his smiling face will be missed ..RIP Steve

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  37. Shannon says

    November 29, 2011 at 11:49 pm

    Sherry remember that you and the girls will have Steve with you forever in your hearts and that he is watching over you. You shared a deep love and that will bring you through this difficult time, It won’t be easy but know that you have so many people who care about you and will be there for you in the difficult times ahead.

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  38. Raymond and Jodie Guillemette says

    November 29, 2011 at 10:16 pm

    Kay and family, Please accept our sincerest condolences for the loss of your son and brother. May the love of God bring you healing and peace. Sincerely,
    The Guillemette’s

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  39. Michael Brewitt (McFall) says

    November 29, 2011 at 9:53 pm

    Steve, you were my very first friend when we met in grade 1. Since then we have been through, and overcome, a lot of bad times together. But our good times greatly exceeded our bad times. Like our trip to Myrtle Beach…dancing to “Momma Said Knock You Out”…Wonderland…puking in Tammy’s laundry room…the mo-ped adventures…the time we stole the Jeep…the accidental black eye…all the things we swore secrecy to…and of course, all the girls. In the past few days I have been forced to come to the harsh reality that those memories are now all I will ever have, and that truly is heart wrenching. This is absolutely devastating to everyone. The shear volume of responses to this tragedy only demonstrates the imprint you left on everyone that knew you. A compassionate man with a rugged exterior who would stand up for, or to, anyone who needed it. I hope that you are at peace, and hanging out with Roy and Pat. As I struggle to come to terms with this I want you to know that I will miss you, but will never forget you. You are too important.

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  40. Lisa Randon says

    November 29, 2011 at 9:47 pm

    I am very saddened to hear about Steve’s passing. I have very fond memories of him through my brother, growing up. Heartfelt thoughts and prayers to Steven’s family, may strength come from the memories you have shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead.
    Be in peace now Steve.

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  41. Anneissa, Mike & Gavyn says

    November 29, 2011 at 9:34 pm

    Steve your warm smile and friendly personality brought many people so many beautiful, fun loving memories. Your a kind hearted soul whom will be missed by us all. Im so very sorry to hear of your passing. My truest condolences to your family. Rest in Peace my old friend.

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  42. Wendy Massey says

    November 29, 2011 at 8:39 pm

    I was deeply saddened by the news of Steve’s sudden passing. So young, so much life yet to live. Steve was so kind to me after the loss of my son Steven and i will always be grateful to him for that. My deepest condolences to all of Steve’s family and friends, he will be greatly missed. Great big hugs to you Kay, i am truly sorry for your devastating loss.

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  43. Joanne and Walter Randon says

    November 29, 2011 at 8:10 pm

    So sorry to hear about Steven passing… you are in heaven now, and at peace.. my sympathy to his wife and family….

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  44. Sarah says

    November 29, 2011 at 7:35 pm

    Steve… it’s so hard to accept that you’re gone…it seems like forever has passed since we first met. I had a great time with you and Sherry after the Usher concert. It’s so hard in times like this to put emotions into words…may your soul have found everlasting peace in Heaven…Sherry my heart bleeds for you and your girls in this hard time…stay strong, cherish the great times together, and may you find comfort knowing you have a beautiful Guardian Angel with you now and forever…<3

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  45. Kevin, Donna, Austin, Ryan & Kyle McAdie says

    November 29, 2011 at 7:30 pm

    Family and friends come together this time.
    To remember you with your bright sunshine

    You will be sadly missed
    with each passing day.
    But we will have our memories to help guide the way.

    RIP Steve. We will surely miss you.

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  46. Anna-Marie Heitzner says

    November 29, 2011 at 7:20 pm

    It had been a few years since I saw Steve, but remember meeting him one day in the Tottenham Mall wearing the same smile that I knew when he was a little boy- and as always, with a mischievous twinkle in his eye. Sincere sympathy and many prayers are sent to you Kay and family. RIP Steve.
    Anna-Marie Heitzner

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  47. Christina Massey says

    November 29, 2011 at 7:19 pm

    It’s hard to accept that you’re gone Steve. Although it’s been quite some time since we’ve been close, with the news of your passing the memories are flooding me….
    I’m honored to have known you, thankful for all you ever did for me and my family, I will cherish those memories forever. RIP

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  48. Joel Clausner says

    November 29, 2011 at 6:25 pm

    Although Your Far Away From Us,
    Our Memory Will Bring You Near.
    With Every Minute That Goes By,
    We Wish That You Were Here.

    With Every Day That Passes By,
    We Will Hold You In Our Hearts.
    Although Your Life On Earth Is Over,
    Your New One In Heaven Starts.

    Now We Must Continue Our Lives,
    Through This Sorrow And This Pain.
    Until One Day It Comes Our Time,
    And We Reunite Once Again…

    RIP Steve. You Will Be Missed. <3

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  49. Chris Callender says

    November 29, 2011 at 5:41 pm

    Steve, you will be sadly missed by all who loved you and knew you. I cherish and value all our memories together. You made a life-long impact on me, being my closest friend I’ve ever had.

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  50. Anjie says

    November 29, 2011 at 5:28 pm

    I was truly shocked at the news of Steve’s death. So young to be taken from us. My sympathies go out to his family. To his brother, Chris, whom I work with, I am so very, very sorry for your loss.

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  51. Bob & Julie Eagan says

    November 29, 2011 at 5:12 pm

    We were both so shocked and terribly saddened to hear of Steve’s passing. We send our deepest condolences to the family and know that all of you are in our prayers. Special prayers for Sherry, Kayla and Tristen.
    We are so very sorry for your loss.
    Bob & Julie Eagan

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  52. Michael says

    November 29, 2011 at 3:51 pm

    You were too way too good and way too young my friend. Rest peacefully. My most sincere condolences to Healy’s direct and extended family.

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  53. Sandie says

    November 29, 2011 at 3:15 pm

    I am so sorry to hear about Steve’s passing at such a young age. I truly hope you have found peace and you can now rest. My thoughts and prayers go out to Sherry, Kayla and Tristen and the rest of the family.

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  54. Stacey O'Halloran says

    November 29, 2011 at 1:42 pm

    I don’t even know how to express the emotions I feel. I am still in shock and can’t believe you’re really gone. You were such an incredible person and you touched the lives of everyone who knew you. We go back over 20 years and I will always treasure our times together. When I moved to Tottenham from Toronto at 13yrs old, I was scared & felt so alone. You were one of the first people I met and you were so kind and sweet to me. Your beautiful, electric blue eyes & your infectious smile melted my heart every time you looked at me. You were always the life of any gathering or party with your sense of humour & charm! I will always hold dearly the memories I have of our times together and you will forever be in my heart! I will miss running into you at Ernest Cumberland & Zehrs almost on a weekly basis!! You were a true friend and a beautiful soul. There’s a special place in Heaven for people like you, Steve and I know you will find peace there. Although you were taken from us too soon, we were all so very blessed to have had you & known you. Now Heaven is lucky to have you! May you rest in peace, Steve and know that you may be gone from this earth, but you will never, ever be forgotten! I will miss you dearly, Blue Eyes!

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  55. Kim says

    November 29, 2011 at 1:29 pm

    So sorry to hear about the passing of Steve, My heart goes out to the family..

    R.I.P. Steve

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  56. David Kim says

    November 29, 2011 at 1:00 pm

    I do not know how I say goodbye to you. It was a really big shock to me. Steve you were my great supporter beside myself. You will be in my thoughts forever. R.I.P. Steve.

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  57. Gloria Hillier says

    November 29, 2011 at 12:35 pm

    Steve you will be sadly missed by all. Your wit and humor will be sadly missed. My condolences go out to all of the family. R.I.P. Steve.

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  58. Cindy Milbury says

    November 29, 2011 at 12:17 pm

    I am so sorry to hear of the loss of such a great person and friend. Steve you will always be remembered by so many. We had one summer of fun times I will not forget with Tammy and Tara. I hope you have found peace. Big Hugs to your wife and two girls. XO

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  59. Kathleen Chafe says

    November 29, 2011 at 12:09 pm

    I have no words to express how sorry I am to hear of Steves passing. It has been many years since weve seen or even spoken to one another. I will always remember the boy I grew up with, played and was teased by.

    RIP Steve.

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  60. Josee Stewart says

    November 29, 2011 at 11:53 am

    It has been an adventure this past 15 months as Steve and I learned our new jobs together. We had numerous ups and downs, many frustrations, lots of laughs…I could always depend on him, he will be greatly missed at F&P.
    My sincere condolences to Steve’s family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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