It is with profound sadness that the family of Eldon Abernethy announces his peaceful passing at Matthews House Hospice, on January 6, 2024, after a courageous battle with cancer.
Dearly missed by his loving wife, Linda (McFadden) of 42 years, loving father to Brian (Kate) and David (Christine), and Grampa (AKA “Eldon”) to Xander and Clover. Dear brother of Jim (Kim Murphy), Gwen Green (late Morgan) and Gladys McKay (Jim). Sadly missed by his sister in laws Pat Abernethy, Ann Crawford (Ken), and brother in law Robert McFadden. Predeceased by his loving parents George and Mae (London) and in laws Edison and Eileen (Westlake) McFadden. Eldon will forever be in the hearts of his extended family, friends and neighbours.
Eldon lived on his family farm outside of Tottenham for 56 years. He was proud to raise his two sons on the family farm. In 2006, Eldon and his family moved to a farm outside of Ivy. Eldon was extremely proud of his Dexter cattle herd. Eldon was proud to work with his brother with J & E Contractors, a family owned construction company In his later years, he transitioned to working for his nephew Steven at Dardan Construction. Although Eldon was a true farmer at heart, he also took pride in the many commercial buildings, farms structures and homes they built throughout New Tecumseth and area.
Eldon was a proud member of the Georgian Bay Steam Show, Huronia Fur and Feather Club, and International Harvester Chapter 20 Club. In his retirement years, he became known for his beautifully crafted coffee tables, magazine racks, and cream can stools.
His family is grateful for the amazing care he received from Dr. Rohan Manocha, Southlake RHC, Stronach Cancer Centre, Matthews House Hospice, R.V.H. and St. Elizabeth Health Care.
We are thankful to have had such caring and wonderful neighbours, friends, and family. Thank you for all the prayers, kindness, meals, phone calls, and visits.
A public visitation will be held in the chapel on Wednesday January 10, 2024 from 12:00pm – 1:00pm at Rod Abrams Funeral Home, 1666 Tottenham Rd., Tottenham 905-936-3477. A reception will follow from 1:00pm – 3:00pm.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Eldon’s memory to Stronach Cancer Centre and Matthews House Hospice.
“ For all of us keeping track, Eldon has now officially used up all of his nine lives.”
Service
Visitation
Rod Abrams Funeral Home
1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham Ontario L0G1W0
Wednesday January 10, 2024
12:00pm - 1:0pm
Reception
Rod Abrams Funeral Home - Cliffside Hall
1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham Ontario L0G1W0
Wednesday January 10, 20241:00pm - 3:00pm
Lorraine Frank says
Dear Linda and family,
I just heard that Eldon passed away. Please accept my sincerest condolences and may the wonderful memories you have help you through this difficult time.
Lorraine Frank
Sue and Dave Jevons says
Dear Linda and Family, We offer our sincere condolences on the passing of Eldon. We hold you in our hearts at this time.
Prayers & Blessings,
Sue and Dave Jevons
Robert says
May his Journey Be Grand. RIP Brother. Robert.
Donna Argent Williams says
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. A friend of the family.
Don & Kathy Mitchell says
We were saddened to hear of Eldon’s passing.
Eldon was always a kind and gentle person!
He will be missed by so very many.
Our sincere condolences to Linda & family, all of the Abernethy family & Bob McFadden
Don & Kathy Mitchell
John and Carolynn Westlake says
Linda and Family.
We are so sorry to hear, just today, of Eldon’s passing.
Eldon was a very special person, who we always admired for his great smile, sense of humor, and his down to earth, country wisdom.
He was a wonderful ambassador of our country heritage.
We always enjoyed meeting and talking to him at the Steam Show, Beeton Fair Grounds, and all of Marion’s family get togethers.
We were lucky to be able to call him “Our Friend.”
We are very sorry that we didn’t hear in time to come to Rod’s on 10 January.
John and Carolynn
Pat Watson nee Dale says
My heartfelt condolences to you Linda and family . We were neighbours , went to Hammel’s school together . My family appreciated Eldon’s watching out for and caring for our elderly parents . He was just a down to earth great guy ,
Jim Evans says
Sorry for your loss I worked for Eldon and his brother Jim as a young man working construction building houses,roofing and farm work.
Learned a lot during this time and always enjoyed working for him and with him. Some great times
Rip
Cheryl Fotherby says
To Linda and Family
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Eldon.
I am praying for strength and peace for you at this difficult time.
Sincerely
Cheryl
Carla & Jim Williams says
Our sincere condolences to you Linda and the whole Abernathy family. Eldon was a beacon of light for our family during a really difficult time and we will never forget his grace. I hope you cherish all the wonderful memories and that they bring a smile to your face during this difficult time.
Mary Doldersum says
Our deepest sympathy to Eldon’s family
Ralph loved working with Eldon and Steve and has shared many stories with me of when you all worked together on different building sites.
I understand how difficult this time will be Linda.
Mary and Family
Tonya Laver says
Dear Linda and family. I am so sorry to hear the loss of Eldon. You always spoke so highly of him and shared so many stories of your family! Hold those memories close.
With deepest sympathies,
Tonya & Ivan Laver
Rob and Audra Calhoun says
Our sincere condolences to Linda and the Abernethy family. Eldon always had time for a friendly chat and was smiling all the time. He will certainly be missed in the community.
Holly hamilton hutton says
My family and I met Elden at the cookstown steam show he was a really nice guy and we are so sorry to hear of his passing sending all of our deepest sympathy and condolences to the family
Robert McCarthy says
So sorry to hear of Eldon’s passing.
We offer our sincere condolences to his family
Robert &Donna McCarthy
Jayne Breedon Dix says
Linda and family,
I’m so sorry to hear of Eldon’s passing.
May your memories bring you comfort in the days to come.
Norma Wilkinson says
Deepest condolences to the whole family especially his loving wife. Eldon worked on my residence in 1999 and I remember him as a gentle and caring soul..Always pleasant and a master in his carpentry talents.Rest in peace ELDON.
Paula Strachan says
Dave
I am very sorry to hear of your father’s passing. I want to send you, your Mom and all of your family my sincere condolences.
Take Care
Billy’s Aunt Paula
Lucy Coates-Goorts says
My family, grew up down the road on concession 6 from the Abernethy farm.
My brother’s spoke of Eldon and the Abernethy family often over the years. I will remember his gentle, kind smile and the twinkle in his eye.
Condolences to the family
Lucy Coates-Goorts
Marilyn Stone says
Truly the loss of a really good man with a very kind heart. You will be missed. Thank you Eldon and Linda for driving me all the way to Alabama and for your visits to Midland during Covid. Thank you for Brian, the kind loving husband to my daughter Kate.
PETER COATES says
Condolences!
He sat behind me in grade 9 at Banting Memorial Highschool.
Peter Coates
Glen Schlueter says
My condolences to the Abernethy family. Sorry to hear of your loss.
Valerie Schell says
Dear Linda and Family
My condolences in the passing of Eldon. I knew Eldon from the Huronia Fur and Feather Club. Over the years we would frequently swap farm stories and discuss topics surrounding poultry, sheep and cattle. I will miss Eldon and those chats and my heart goes out to you and your family for your loss.
Bob and Margaret Milligan says
Dear Linda & Family:
We are so sorry for your loss. Eldon was a real gentleman and well respected by the community. He will be missed by all.
John & Karen Hawkins says
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Abernethy family at this challenging time. Eldon will be missed by all who knew him. We are honoured to have known the Abernethy family for the last 25 years. Eldon’s quiet wit and wisdom will be long remembered. “Still waters run deep”. God bless the Abernethy family. R.I.P. Eldon.
The Huronia Fur & Feather Club says
Our hearts go out to Linda and the rest of Eldon’s family. The Huronia Fur & Feather Club have enjoyed the wit and humour from Eldon since his family joined the Club in 1999. He was a loyal volunteer at our Buy/Sell/Trade days. Eldon was a friend to everyone and will surely be missed by all especially when it comes time to adjourn our monthly meetings. Rest in Peace Eldon.
Ruth McLeod says
I wish we were not so far away, but know that our thoughts are with you all , as you negotiate your way through this very difficult time.
Blessings
Ruth and Don
Brian and Karen Westlake and family says
Linda, Brian and David and families a well deserved tribute to an amazing person we were fortunate to have as a family member and as a friend. A true life partner in your many adventures and a proud and loving father, compassionate and caring to family and community he will be missed by all but forever in our memories. Love and Hugs!
marc ronan says
Eldon was a great guy all around and always had time for everyone. We will miss his grass roots approach to life that served him ,his family and our community well. Sincere condolences from the Ronan’s
Phil Merklinger says
Sending our thoughts/ prayers and Condolences to the family. Eldon was a amazing person, never without a smile. Was always a pleasure to be around.
Ron & Betty Nelsons says
Dear Linda, Brain , David and family,
Our condolences on Eldon’s passing. Eldon was always so cheerful and friendly when we would meet at a Fur & Feather Club activity or Oro Fair. He will be a great loss to your family, community and organizations he so cheerfully supported. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Michael and Sonia Hitchman says
Dear Linda, Brian, David and family, our deepest sympathies. Eldon was such a kind man with great insight and wisdom. I always enjoyed our conversations. May the passage of time help mend your hearts.
We apologize for not being there in person.
Brian and Patti Snell says
To Linda and family,
We are very sorry to learn of Eldon’s passing. Eldon was very genuine and down to earth, always had a smile, and always had an interesting story to tell. He will certainly be missed in the community. We extend our condolences at this time of loss and grief.
Sincerely, Brian and Patti Snell, and family.
Doreen Hanrahan says
My condolences to Linda and family. Eldon was a great Husband, Father and Friend. He will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of meeting him. I am one of those lucky ones.
Now when he sneezes the road will be forgiving.
Rest in peace Eldon.
Doreen Hanrahan says
My condolences to Linda and family. Eldon was a great Husband, Father and Friend. He will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of meeting him. I am one of those lucky ones.
Rest in peace Eldon.
Kristine Schick says
We were saddened to hear of Eldon’s passing. Our condolences to all of his loved ones.
Kristine and Aaron Schick
Joyce MacKenzie says
Our very deepest sympathy to you and your family Linda. He will be much missed.
Ralph and and Joyce MacKenzie and family.
Shelley Bowman says
Linda, Victoria and I send our sincerest condolences to you and your family on the passing of Eldon.
Shelley
Mike and Veronica McCarren says
Our sincere sympathies to Linda and the family. Eldon will be sadly missed by many for his genuine nature and kindness.
Cheri Walker says
Dear Linda and Family. Please accept my condolences. I remember with fondness the stories you shared of Eldon, Brian, David and life on the farm. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
Cheri
Rob Sage says
Linda, my condolences to you and your family.
Rob Sage
Doris Kidd says
Linda and family, sorry for your Loss. Eldon was a good friend of Bruce & Glen often visiting us at our farm on the weekends.
Gary and Susan Coleman says
Linda and family—Eldon was a well respected, quiet man and known for his talent as a skilled builder. A gentleman in every sense of the word. Our sincere condolences to your family.
Hank and Betty Lou Vanderpost says
Dear Linda and family:
Our deepest sympathy to you all at this very sad time. Cherish the many wonderful memories. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Hank and Betty Lou Vanderpost
Helen Fowler says
My sincere condolences to the Abernethy family. Sorry I can’t make it up there on Wednesday but please know my heart is will all of you. I’m sure Eldon & Phyllis are catching up on old times.
Hugs to you all.
Helen Fowler (Brown)
Alice & Barry Kant says
Our condolences to Linda and family on Eldon’s passing. Cancer is such a terrible decease which some members of our family have been claimed as well. I remember Eldon and the Abernethy family from our days at Tottenham United Church. From his obituary he led a proud and successful life to be proud of even if claimed too soon.
Remember and cherish the good times.
The Alexander Family says
So very sorry hearing of Eldon’s passing. Donation will be made to Matthews Hospice. What a loss of a farmer and a gentleman. Hugs to you all, Viv, glen, carrie and luke, the Alexander Family
Robert Edison McFadden says
He will truly be missed bu all who knew him. May his Journey be Grand.
RIP Eldon.
Kimberly Ing says
Dear Linda, Pete and I extend our condolences to you and your family on the loss of Eldon. We were very sad to hear of his passing. I will be praying for you as you navigate through this time without him.
Kim
Dane Clausen says
Sorry to hear of your passing and I am glad that I had a chance to visit with you a couple of years ago while visiting your neighbors. We sure covered a lot of ground in a short time.
Rest peacefully Eldon.
Dane Clausen.
Barbara and Wayne Courtney says
Our sincere condolences to Linda and the family. Eldon was well liked and will be missed dearly. We will always remember the Abernethy family giving our donkies a good home.