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Elliott Banks

In Memorial

Banks: Elliott Brian,
On Thursday June 6, 2019, at his home in Colgan, where he was born, lived, and was dearly loved. Elliott Banks at the age of 22 months, beloved son of Lawrence and Cailin Banks. Loving brother of Ivy and Lennon. Dearly loved grandson of Brian Banks (Diana), Maureen Banks (Dave Von Drasek), Gregory Skelly (Jody Spegel), and Roberta Skelly (Gerry Penfound). Sadly missed by his aunts and uncles: Tim Skelly (Tania Johnson), Shannon Nicol (Ryan), Mike Banks, Kevin Banks (Danni Ren), and David Banks. Forever in the hearts of his cousins: Ryan, Liam, Connel, Ewan, Ciaran, Cayden, Aurora, and all his extended family and friends.
A Memorial visitation will be held at Rod Abrams Funeral Home 1666 Tottenham Rd., Tottenham 905-936-3477 on Tuesday June 18, 2019 from 2-4 and 7-9pm. A private Family Service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations in memory of Elliott to Epilepsy Ontario or The Go Fund Me page in Support of the Banks Family. Online condolences may be shared at www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.

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  1. Lenore Hogan says

    July 20, 2019 at 6:55 pm

    Cailin, I just read the sad news about your son Elliott. You and your family are in my thoughts and in my prayers.

    Lenore Hogan

    Reply
  2. Tom Naylor says

    June 20, 2019 at 10:50 am

    Cailin and family, My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. I have been thinking of you and extend my most heartfelt sympathy.

    Reply
  3. Sal Fazio says

    June 20, 2019 at 8:04 am

    I am shocked to hear the news this morning from my dear friend Eddy. I am terribly sorry for your loss. He is certainly a little angel. May God help you through this difficult time. Hugs and kisses to you all.

    Reply
  4. Melanie Lemire says

    June 20, 2019 at 6:40 am

    Cailin and family,

    I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences for the loss of your beloved Elliott. Praying for you at this time.

    Reply
  5. Chris and Hugh Kremer says

    June 20, 2019 at 12:13 am

    Cailin, Lawrence, Ivy, Lennon and family,
    No words can express the pain you are going through as there is no greater loss than that of a child. We pray that your family can find peace in knowing that Elliott‘s memory will live on in those whose lives he touched.
    Chris and Hugh Kremer

    Reply
  6. Pat & Mary Jo Menchenton says

    June 19, 2019 at 4:48 pm

    Sorry to hear about the loss of your sweet little boy. You have been and will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers for strength to carry you through now and the future.

    Reply
  7. Butch Perdue and family says

    June 19, 2019 at 4:35 pm

    Lawrence and Cailin,
    We are so sorry for your loss. We hope you and your family can find strength in one another to carry you through the difficult times ahead. Our hearts are with you.

    Reply
  8. Lesley Schenko says

    June 19, 2019 at 2:51 pm

    Please accept my deepest condolences

    Reply
  9. Elizebell says

    June 19, 2019 at 12:24 pm

    Dearest Cailin,
    My deepest condolences to you and your family. Such a beautiful child gone too soon. Heartful love and sympathy.
    xoxox

    Reply
  10. Jocelyn Cariaga says

    June 19, 2019 at 10:45 am

    HiCailin, so sorry to hear about your loss.My heartfelt sympathy and condolences to the whole family.My God bless and guide you in this very difficult time.

    Reply
  11. Aimee Hindle says

    June 19, 2019 at 10:10 am

    Cailin and Family, I am so so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.
    Aimee

    Reply
  12. Peter Basso says

    June 18, 2019 at 7:26 pm

    So sorry to hear this news, sincerest sympathy and condolences from our family.

    Reply
  13. Bill & Sandy Clark says

    June 18, 2019 at 6:47 pm

    We send our sincerest sympathy for the loss of your little angel, Elliott.

    Reply
  14. Melinda says

    June 18, 2019 at 6:09 pm

    I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.
    Rest In Peace Elliott.

    Reply
  15. Theresa Murray says

    June 18, 2019 at 5:21 pm

    Cailin and Lawrence, my deepest sympathy and prayers for you and your entire family at the passing of Elliott.

    Reply
  16. Patrick & Pamela Ali says

    June 18, 2019 at 12:48 pm

    Sending our deepest condolences to your entire family. He is a beautiful little boy. His memories will forever live with your hearts.

    Reply
  17. Cristina Vona says

    June 18, 2019 at 12:25 pm

    Cailin and Lawrence, My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. Our little angels are always with us and watching over us.

    Reply
  18. Kim Baker says

    June 18, 2019 at 12:01 pm

    To meet Elliott was to love him instantly. I cannot imagine your loss Cailin, Lawrence, Ivy & Lennon. I hope you find peace in your love for one another.

    Reply
  19. Edith Mussato says

    June 18, 2019 at 11:17 am

    Cailin my deepest sympathies to you and your family on the passing of Elliot. Love and prayers for you and your family

    Reply
  20. Shira Harrison McIntyre says

    June 18, 2019 at 9:46 am

    My deepest condolences during this difficult time.

    Reply
  21. Marilyn Pelley says

    June 17, 2019 at 9:11 pm

    Cailin, I am so sorry to hear about your little boy.My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your Family.

    Reply
  22. Jane Crombie says

    June 17, 2019 at 7:58 pm

    Cailin and Lawrence and family. So sorry for your loss. It is heartbreaking. Condolences from the Crombie family.

    Reply
  23. Melanie Weiss says

    June 17, 2019 at 5:15 pm

    Cailin,

    My heart aches for you. I wish I could take all your pain away. I’m planning to go tomorrow in hopes to give you a big hug. I will pray for you and your family.

    xoxo
    M

    Reply
  24. RJ FALCONI says

    June 17, 2019 at 3:26 pm

    Maureen, Dave and family…Words cannot begin to describe the tragic loss of your little Elliot. We will never make sense of why God planned for him to leave our world so soon in life which seems so unfair. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Reply
  25. Gunilla Johansson says

    June 17, 2019 at 11:22 am

    Cailin,
    My sincere sympathies..
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..

    Reply
  26. Anson Kendall says

    June 17, 2019 at 10:48 am

    Cailin and Lawrence,
    Your family is in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.

    Lots of love for you and your family.

    Reply
  27. Dan and Krystine Comanici says

    June 17, 2019 at 9:27 am

    Cailin and Lawrence, since we heard this devastating news we have been at a loss of words…
    Our profound sorrow for your loss
    Condolences

    Reply
  28. Maureen O’Reilly says

    June 17, 2019 at 8:52 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

    Reply
  29. Tracey Hudson (Doyle) and family says

    June 16, 2019 at 9:56 pm

    Callin and family. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

    Reply
  30. The Reid Family says

    June 16, 2019 at 9:35 pm

    Cailin, Lawrence, Ivy and Lennon: Your deep love and caring was reflected in Elliott’s pure joy. We were so priveledged to have the opportunity to bask in his joy. A precious gift that we have been blessed to receive, and will carry with us always. We love you Banks’ and we love your love.

    Love The Reids

    Reply
  31. Jane Ballantyne says

    June 16, 2019 at 8:32 pm

    Dear Cailin, Lawrence, Ivy, Lennon and the rest of your loving family –

    May you find strength in each other and your memories of sweet Elliott to help cope with this devastating loss. My heart just aches for you all.

    Jane

    Reply
  32. EvelynWadden says

    June 16, 2019 at 8:13 pm

    Cailin my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time Hugs❤️

    Reply
  33. Jennifer Morgan says

    June 16, 2019 at 6:42 pm

    Cailin, I am saddened to hear about the loss of Elliott. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    Reply
  34. Andrea Maher says

    June 16, 2019 at 4:37 pm

    Cailin and family, I am so incredibly sorry and heartbroken to hear of your loss of your beautiful baby boy. No one should have to endure that kind of pain. Thinking of you all.

    Reply
  35. Rebecca Sinyi says

    June 16, 2019 at 3:53 pm

    Dearest Cailin and family, I am shocked and saddened to see this tragic news. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
    Miss you
    Rebecca

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  36. Joanne Vieira says

    June 16, 2019 at 3:23 pm

    Cailin, I am so saddened to hear of Elliott’s passing and have kept you all on my thoughts since I heard the news. My heartfelt condolences to you, Lawrence, Ivy and Lennon. Sending you strength and love during this most difficult time.

    Reply
  37. marc ronan says

    June 16, 2019 at 1:38 pm

    Condolences from the Ronan family 🙁

    Reply
  38. Melanie Fahr (Banks) & family says

    June 16, 2019 at 12:55 pm

    I am so deeply saddened and sorry for the loss of your son.
    Thinking of you all at this sad time.
    Sending all our love and prayers.
    My heart aches for you.

    Reply
  39. Ron Fortier says

    June 16, 2019 at 12:47 pm

    So sorry for your loss. It’s never easy to lose a child. Our heart goes out to you. Ron and Shelba Fortier

    Reply
  40. Adrienne Baldassarra says

    June 16, 2019 at 10:01 am

    There are no words I have that will do.
    I send you all my love.
    My deepest condolences.

    Reply
  41. Doreen Skelly and Mike Nellis says

    June 16, 2019 at 9:55 am

    To the family of sweet boy, Eliott: Our profound sorrow at your loss, and hope you are able to find comfort and peace in the
    times ahead.

    Reply
  42. The Fracassi Family says

    June 16, 2019 at 9:36 am

    We are so incredibly and deeply sorry for your tremendous loss. Lawrence, Cailin, Ivy and Lennon, you are in our thoughts, hearts and prayers.

    Reply
  43. Nana Diana says

    June 16, 2019 at 7:50 am

    You brought so much joy into my life and everyone else. You will always be in my heart. Love you my sweet baby..

    Reply
  44. Brenda Lee Martin says

    June 16, 2019 at 7:03 am

    May memories of Elliot and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. Thinking of you and wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.

    Reply
  45. Grampa Brian says

    June 16, 2019 at 6:18 am

    Your mischievous loving eyes..your quirky smile..your “sit Grampa sit” found there way deep in my heart….Run wild and free my Little E

    Reply
  46. Kathy MacNeil says

    June 16, 2019 at 3:23 am

    I am devastated for your family. He was just a cute as a button and I am sure that her was loved unconditionally my thoughts and prayer’s for all of the family. If there is anything my family can do just call me. Love to all

    Reply
  47. Ginny Cathcart says

    June 15, 2019 at 11:47 pm

    So very sorry for the loss of your dear beautiful boy. Holding you all in my heart.

    Reply
  48. Rachel Penasse says

    June 15, 2019 at 10:35 pm

    I’m so sorry for your devastating loss. Rest In Peace Elliot.

    Reply
  49. colleen oreilly says

    June 15, 2019 at 9:44 pm

    I am deeply sorry for your loss words can not ever be enough my prayer’s and thoughts go out to the family may you rest in peace sweet angel.

    Reply
  50. Christine Banks says

    June 15, 2019 at 9:25 pm

    Rest in peace, little one. Love and prayers to all of you at this time.

    Reply
  51. Sharon Davis says

    June 15, 2019 at 8:59 pm

    Rest in peace little angel. Run and play with the kitties and puppies

    Reply
  52. Kay Healy says

    June 15, 2019 at 8:43 pm

    Lawrence Cailin and all your dear family, ever since I heard this devastating news I have been at a loss for words and I know why! There simply are no words!just true heartfelt sympathy and sorrow for your tremendous loss! Praying the great love you share will get you through this dreadful tragedy!

    Reply
  53. Tracy and Audrey Ross says

    June 15, 2019 at 7:56 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Xo

    Audrey(brownies) and Tracy

    Reply
  54. Jessyka Portelli & Edward McKenna says

    June 15, 2019 at 7:52 pm

    Our deepest and sincerest sympathies during this very sad time. Continued prayers for all of you. Our hearts ache for your loss.
    When we lose our nearest and dearest we gain an Angel that we know. Love Jessyka & Eddie

    Reply
  55. Jason Korzenko & Family says

    June 15, 2019 at 7:25 pm

    Cailin, so sorry to hear of this devastating news. Words can’t ever be enough, but know we are thinking of you and your family during this time.

    Reply
  56. Laura (Corkum)Campbell says

    June 15, 2019 at 7:19 pm

    Thoughts & prayers are with you at this very sad time.

    Reply
  57. Benner Family says

    June 15, 2019 at 6:42 pm

    Saddened to hear of the tragic loss of your son Elliott, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. With love CuRuadh, Couann and Conal Benner

    Reply
  58. Shannuna Jordan says

    June 15, 2019 at 5:08 pm

    I am so sorry for your tragic loss Cailin and family. My prayers and thoughts are with you in this most devastating time.

    Reply

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