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Jason Harkness

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Harkness Jason

Harkness: Jason James Elijah,

Peacefully with family by his side at Matthews House Hospice Alliston on May 13, 2022. Jason Harkness at the age of 49 years, beloved husband of Pamela Harkness (nee: Langdon). Loving father of Evan and Brayden. Dearly loved son of Linda and Ken Harkness. Sadly missed by his brothers David (Joanne), and Adam (Mandy) and their families. Predeceased by his grandparents Vicki and Walter Urbanski. Forever in the hearts of his extended family members and many friends.

The family will receive friends at Rod Abrams Funeral Home 1666 Tottenham Rd., Tottenham, 905-936-3477 on Monday May 16, 2022 from 2-4 and 6-8pm. Funeral Service will be held in the chapel on Tuesday May 17, 2022 at 11am. Cremation will follow. Later in the summer at a date and time yet to be determined, a Celebration of Jason’s Life will be held. Please watch for details as they become available. Donations in Jason’s memory to Matthews House Hospice Alliston would be appreciated by the family. Online condolences and memories may be left for the family at www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.

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Jason Harkness - Visitation

Rod Abrams Funeral Home

1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham, ON L0G1W0

Monday May 16, 2022

2:00pm - 4:00pm

Jason Harkness - Visitation

Rod Abrams Funeral Home

1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham, ON L0G1W0

Monday May 16, 2022

6:00pm - 8:00pm

Jason Harkness - Funeral Service

Rod Abrams Funeral Home

1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham, ON L0G1W0

Tuesday May 17, 2022

11:00am

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  1. Robert Cymbalski says

    July 7, 2023 at 4:57 am

    I was shocked and heartbroken to hear of Jason’s passing not long ago. It saddens me that such a warm-hearted, generous, and extremely healthy guy could leave us so young. Every time I saw Jason, he had the biggest smile. He was always down for a good time, and his enthusiasm for life showed it. Although I haven’t seen Jason in some time, I always thought of him and our close friends regularly, which always brings me a smile. The memories I have of Jason are now etched in my mind forever. I will always cherish the time we spent together. Jason is one guy we will never forget. I wish his family and friend the best in these times of sadness. Jason, may you rest in peace.

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  2. Anneissa Smith-Wheeler says

    August 28, 2022 at 10:18 am

    My sincere condolences I’m just finding out now. Jason was such a beautiful soul that I always looked up to.

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  3. Andy Mein says

    June 20, 2022 at 12:17 pm

    What a remarkable man, full of integrity, honesty and honour. I miss you so much, my brother. Pam, Evan and Braydon, may we all give you the needed strength necessary to deal with this awful circumstance.

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  4. John Fleck says

    June 18, 2022 at 9:44 am

    Linda and Ken. So so sorry to hear of Jason’s passing. Way too early in life. My condolences.

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  5. Andrew Wallace says

    June 15, 2022 at 3:58 pm

    Linda, Ken and the Harness families and friends –

    I would like to offer my sincerest condolences at the loss of Jason. Although neighbours for only a very short period of time, I remember Jason with fond memories and was saddened to learn of his passing. My thoughts go out to Jason’s family.

    With Sympathy,
    Drew Wallace

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  6. Kevin Everton says

    May 22, 2022 at 11:40 pm

    Pam I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Jason. I was shocked to hear of this just recently and sorry for the late reply. He was a great man I always like Jason when we worked together in Alliston. He will be definitely missed by a lot of us at the shipping yard. I would of been at the visitation if I had known but I haven’t worked their in 4 years. Your kids I’m sure will miss their father a lot and you will to. Anyways take care and remember all the memories you and the kids have shared.

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  7. mike cox says

    May 21, 2022 at 1:47 am

    I am so sorry for your loss.
    This really hit home with me.
    Jason was such a hard working young man that love his family so much. We had a few long convention when he came to my shop.
    Such a great young man.

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  8. Carol McCormack says

    May 19, 2022 at 1:14 pm

    Dear Linda, Ken, and families: So sorry to hear of the passing of Jason, I can only imagine your grief. Please accept my sincere condolences myself and my family. I didn’t hear about this soon enough to attend the service. Many wonderful memories will help you through this difficult time. Hugs to all
    Carol McCormack and Ron Hayes
    Kristy and Ed Sanchuk and family
    Julie and Kevin Stover and family
    Scott and Carolyn McCormack

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  9. Carolyn Rodulfo says

    May 19, 2022 at 7:18 am

    Dear Linda and family,
    My sincere condolences. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  10. Rose Marie Armstrong says

    May 18, 2022 at 7:04 pm

    I am so sorry to hear about Jason’s passing. My condolences to you Linda and Ken and your families. My prayers and thoughts are with Pamela and boys.

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  11. Susan Jevons says

    May 18, 2022 at 11:29 am

    Dear Linda and family
    We are so sorry to hear of your overwhelming loss. We are not supposed to outlive our children and we know first hand how painful this loss is. I hope that time will give you the strength to move forward with your wonderful memories.
    Sincerely
    Sue & Dave Jevons

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  12. Linda McCullough says

    May 18, 2022 at 11:22 am

    Dear Ken, Linda and family. My condolences go to all the family. I was so snotty to hear of your loss of a son, husband, father and sibling.
    Linda

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  13. Sandy and Tina McAulay says

    May 18, 2022 at 9:40 am

    We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you all during this incredibly difficult time.

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  14. Betty Anne Rutledge says

    May 17, 2022 at 9:04 pm

    Linda and family, I am so sorry to hear this news. My sincerest condolences to you all. May you find comfort in your family and friends.

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  15. Kim and Kevin Dermott says

    May 17, 2022 at 8:57 pm

    Linda and family. I am so sorry for your loss. Our condolences to your entire family

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  16. Sharon Bell says

    May 17, 2022 at 5:43 pm

    Ken and Linda, I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong, support each other, remember the good times and cherish the memories. I know first hand how difficult it is to lose a loved one. Sending big hugs. May God grant you strength to endure this most difficult time. Sharon Bell

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  17. Shauneen & Iain Mackay says

    May 17, 2022 at 3:47 pm

    Our hearts are heavy with the news of Jason passing away. We cant even imagine what your family is going through Linda, Ken , David , Adam wives and families. We just found out this afternoon. Iain and Shauneen Mackay

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  18. David Anderson says

    May 17, 2022 at 12:33 pm

    Anne and I are thinking of the Harkness family today and feeling very sad to hear of Jason’s passing. A nicer student was never in my class.

    David and Anne Anderson
    Iroquois, Ontario

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  19. Jason Kewley says

    May 17, 2022 at 11:23 am

    My deepest sympathies for your loss. I hope you can find solace in all the happy memories you have shared with Jason.

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  20. Peter Shmagola & Sharon Duggan says

    May 17, 2022 at 9:55 am

    Adam & Families. Our sincerest condolences on the passing of Jason.
    Sharon Duggan & Peter Shmagola

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  21. Mark Jones says

    May 17, 2022 at 9:43 am

    Throughout elementary school, high school and university, Jason was my best friend. There was never a moment that this kind soul didn’t have a smile on his face. I will never forget the fun we had exploring the area where we grew up, whether it was the annual creek runs, wrecking cars and bikes in someone’s back forty or building road blocks to water balloon school buses as they drove by, there was always some fun to be had. I’m so sorry for the loss that everyone feels right now and Jay, you will be missed.

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  22. Oliver Welscher says

    May 17, 2022 at 7:28 am

    Such sad news. I will always remember Jason’s smiles & laughs in the hallways of Banting High School. A great guy who I know many will miss him & be saddened by his passing.

    To Pamela, Evan & Brayden your Husband & Dad was a great guy. Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time. Please let me know if you need anything.

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  23. Lori Thorne says

    May 16, 2022 at 11:20 pm

    Linda and Ken i really do not know what to say but my heart goes out to your family and my condolences to all as Linda I just had a beautiful card from you .

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  24. Bob & Pat Jackson says

    May 16, 2022 at 9:55 pm

    To all of Jason’s loved ones
    We are very sorry for your loss

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  25. Michael A Stickland says

    May 16, 2022 at 9:26 pm

    My deepest condolences to the entire family. I first met Jason many years ago working out at the Red Pines. I will miss our many discussions we had in the gyms over the years and that big smile. He was a young man then and watched as he aged . Always proud of his family and wife , he was a good man.
    RIP
    Jason

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  26. Everett Tremblay says

    May 16, 2022 at 9:07 pm

    Pam and family. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Jason was a great person and a good friend. Even though we lost touch with each other I found this news heartbreaking. Please accept my deepest condolences.

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  27. Chris Legace says

    May 16, 2022 at 6:57 pm

    Our condolences from the Legace family to yours.

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  28. Sean Ronan and Mary Jane Culgin says

    May 16, 2022 at 6:46 pm

    Linda and Ken
    We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear son. You are in our

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  29. Taylor Wild says

    May 16, 2022 at 5:28 pm

    So sorry for your loss, my condolences to your family.

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  30. Mike & Jess says

    May 16, 2022 at 4:56 pm

    We will always remember Jason’s love of nature and showing video footage of interesting wildlife caught on camera. His love of feeding birds.
    May his family find comfort in happy memories. You are in our hearts through this difficult loss.
    May Jason now rest in peace.

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  31. Dale Hunter says

    May 16, 2022 at 4:31 pm

    I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Jason. I will remember him fondly and send my prayers to the entire Harkness family. May you find comfort knowing Jason is at peace.

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  32. Lisa Spoljaric says

    May 16, 2022 at 4:15 pm

    Dear Pam, Evan and Brayden ♥️ We are all so incredibly sorry for your loss, I’m heart crushed for you. Jason was a fighter and he fought his cancer like a true champ. I admire him and the entire family so much for continuing to find joy and happiness through this fight. He battled, never giving up and won the gift of time, sadly it wasn’t long enough. I’m glad he was able to see his boys start on their own path in life and what amazing young men you’ve raised. Wishing you all our love and know we are here for you.

    Love the Spolly’s
    Paul, Lisa, Hunter, Garner, Turner, Logan & Landry

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  33. Deanna Berry says

    May 16, 2022 at 3:37 pm

    Pam, so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  34. Kelly & Russell George says

    May 16, 2022 at 3:31 pm

    Dear Pamela and family,
    We are deeply saddened by the news about the passing of Jason. We are so very sorry. This must be a very difficult time for you all. Please remember that you are in our my thoughts and our prayers.
    Jason was such a kind soul, who will be greatly be missed by all who knew him. We remember the time when we got stuck in our own driveway due to a snow storm and Jason was there to our rescue with his tractor and blade. Jason couldn’t stop laughing at us being the vehicle we drive we should have been able to get out without his help. We couldn’t help but laugh ourselves.
    We know how much you will miss Jason, but you can take comfort and strength from the wonderful family you and he had together. I know their love will get you through this difficult time.
    May God bless you and your family during this time and always.
    Sincerely, Kelly & Russell George

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    • Lisa says

      May 16, 2022 at 4:18 pm

      ♥️

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  35. Lisa Dawe says

    May 16, 2022 at 3:08 pm

    Jason was a greatly appreciated employee of our family’s business for many years. He always had a smile on his face and worked hard. We are very sorry to hear of his passing. On behalf of the Zurba and Dawe families we send heartfelt condolences, thoughts and prayers to the family.

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  36. Andrea Lalli says

    May 16, 2022 at 2:53 pm

    Adam and family,
    My deepest condolences on this most difficult time.

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  37. Mary Atkinson says

    May 16, 2022 at 1:47 pm

    Dear Linda Ken and Family,
    So sorry for your loss. Condolences to all. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    MaryAtkinson

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  38. Sandra Barker (Riddell) says

    May 16, 2022 at 1:13 pm

    Pam,
    Sending you my sincere condolences. I have often thought of you guys and I am saddened to hear about Jason. He was one of a kind with such a good heart. I always remember how kindly he would talk about you and how much love he had for you. I hope you find strength in the memories I’m sure you have.

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  39. Robert and Evy Vienneau says

    May 16, 2022 at 12:30 pm

    Ken and Linda and all of Jason’s family Evy and I were so very saddened to hear of Jason’s passing. Our very sincere condolences go out to all of you.

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  40. Wade Horan says

    May 16, 2022 at 12:24 pm

    Forever in our hearts…Shirley (Bob), Mark, Missy, Wade and family. Will remember the good times discussing RRSPs with my dad and Jason around the farm pool.

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  41. terry doucet says

    May 16, 2022 at 11:18 am

    to the Harkness clan, was saddened to hear the news of Jason, always had great conversations with him,,,,rip

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    • Peter Jorgensen says

      May 16, 2022 at 12:04 pm

      Pam, Evan, Brayden and family;

      I would like to send my sincere condolences and heartfelt sympathy during this time. Sending thoughts and prayers your way. And hoping you find comfort with all the cherished, good memories you have made over the years.

      -Pete Jorgensen

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  42. Charliene Metherall says

    May 16, 2022 at 10:59 am

    Dear Linda and Ken.
    So very sad to hear about Jason. Holding all of you in my thoughts and my prayers. May you find comfort in the cherished memories of him.

    Charliene Metherall

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  43. vince and Gord urbanski says

    May 16, 2022 at 10:53 am

    Deepest condolence of sympathy from Gord and Vince Urbanski

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  44. Team @ MIT Hardware says

    May 16, 2022 at 10:26 am

    HI Pam,

    Sending our heartfelt sympathies and condolences. Let your tears flow, and may your sorrows be softened with happy memories.

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  45. Sandi Nixon says

    May 16, 2022 at 10:19 am

    Dear Pam, Evan & Brayden,

    I am deeply saddened to hear of Jason’s passing. I hope you find comfort is reflecting on happy memories with your husband/father.
    All 3 of you are in my heart and thoughts today and the following days – Sandi

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  46. Darleen Rowley says

    May 16, 2022 at 10:12 am

    Linda and family my condolences, words can not express How I am feeling for you all, you are in my thoughts and prayers now and always. Jason may be gone but he surly has left you
    Wonderful memories you can hold onto forever.
    Cherish them . Till you meet again ❤️

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  47. Shelley Verhoek says

    May 16, 2022 at 9:59 am

    Uncle Kenny aunt Linda David and Adam and families my very deepest condolences my heart is truly broken for you all you all are in my prayers I love you and am thinking of you

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  48. Dorothy Vitelli says

    May 16, 2022 at 9:57 am

    Dear Linda, Ken and family.
    So sad to hear of you loss.
    We are so very sorry.
    Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Love,
    Mario & Dorothy

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  49. Dana Garner (Wistoski) says

    May 16, 2022 at 9:52 am

    My sincere condolences to the whole family. I hope you can find peace through the happy memories you have of Jason. May he Rest In Peace ❤️

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  50. Wayne and Cindy Hollingshead says

    May 16, 2022 at 9:01 am

    Our deepest condolences to Pamela, Evan and Brayden and the rest of Jason’s family.

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  51. Dean Peruzzi says

    May 16, 2022 at 8:40 am

    Condolences on your loss, may God give you peace during this difficult time

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  52. Christine Dimun says

    May 16, 2022 at 8:25 am

    Dear Linda, Ken & Family:
    We are so sorry for your loss…
    Jason was a wonderful and handsome young man who went out of his way to say “hello”
    We hope you are all surrounded by those who love and support you through this difficult time.
    Gone to soon…
    With Heartfelt Sympathy,
    Tilly & Christine Dimun

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  53. Mark, Amy & Family says

    May 16, 2022 at 7:39 am

    Our deepest condolences.

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  54. Michael Hunter says

    May 16, 2022 at 7:24 am

    Jay is going to be missed, many a day in our superman, blue twisted steal younger versions we worked out on the wrestling mats and reminiscing about some of MMA favorites. Jason would perfectly mimic a quirky smile that “Tank” Abbott would do as he would do a head lock on a guy.! Of course, once we started laughing we knew training was over..! Brother, you are going to be missed. Condolences for your family.

    Michael and Kristina Hunter

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  55. Judy Harwood and Family says

    May 15, 2022 at 7:40 pm

    Dear Linda, Ken and family, we are so sorry to hear of your loss, words cannot express but may wonderful memories help sustain you in this terrible time of sorrow. Thoughts and prayers.

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  56. Kathy orsi says

    May 15, 2022 at 6:26 pm

    Dear Aunt Linda and Uncle Kenny and family , Our Condolences are so great and I am so sad to hear of this great loss. Such a young handsome man. Rest In Peace , the Lord is Holding you tight Jason. God Bless . Orsi’s

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  57. Stephanie Dimun says

    May 15, 2022 at 6:22 pm

    So sorry to hear …your in our thoughts and prayers.

    Stephanie Dimun and Bob Aragona

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  58. Rose Price says

    May 15, 2022 at 5:35 pm

    My heartfelt condolences to Jason’s family. I am so proud to be his Aunt and will miss him dearly.

    Rose Price

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  59. Tracey Saville says

    May 15, 2022 at 5:05 pm

    We will always remember Jason with love and memories shared over the years. Our condolences to the whole family.

    Tracey and Nick Saville

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  60. John Gnap says

    May 15, 2022 at 1:14 pm

    I will always remember Jason with a smile on his face. A true friend and gentlemen.
    Always looked forward to working with Jason (aka Jayva), because it would always turn out to be fun.
    Sending the families our sincere condolences.
    R. I. P. my friend
    John and Nina Gnap

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