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Kathy Messenger

In Memorial

Messenger: Kathleen Shirley.
Suddenly at her home in Newmarket on Thursday December 13th, 2018. Kathy, was in her 63rd year. Loving mother of Adam (Erin) Rosato, and Jonathan (Mallory) Rosato. Sadly missed by her grandchildren John, and Olivia. Beloved daughter of Marilyn and the late Blanchard Messenger. Dear sister of Donna (Brian), Tim (Lisa), and Raymond (Clara). Fondly remembered by her many nieces and nephews.
Respecting Kathy’s wishes cremation has taken place and a celebration of her life will be held at the Royal Canadian Legion, 25 Richmond Street, East, Tottenham, on Saturday January 5th, 2018 from 1-4 pm with words of remembrance beginning at 1:30 pm. Arrangements entrusted to Rod Abrams Funeral Home, Tottenham, 905-936-3477. www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com

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  1. Rob, Michel & Katelyn Mann says

    January 5, 2019 at 11:11 am

    Adam we are so sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your mother. We are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

    Reply
  2. Anna-Lisa S says

    January 2, 2019 at 3:14 pm

    Kathy was an amazing woman. She lit up talking about how much she loved her grandchildren. I am sure she is reunited with her beloved Hayley. I am so sorry for your loss.

    Reply
  3. Susan Brighton says

    December 28, 2018 at 7:45 pm

    Aunt Marilyn, Donna, Raymond, Tim and families. I am so sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. I know you feel a tremendous loss and sense of overwhelming emptiness. Be kind to each other and allow time to bring healing to your hearts. My prayers are with you all.

    Reply
  4. Donna and Dave Mountain says

    December 24, 2018 at 6:45 pm

    Condolences to the Rosato families. Sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this very sad time.

    Reply
  5. Carol and Alan Woodward says

    December 24, 2018 at 4:21 pm

    So sorry Jon and Mallory to hear the news of your mom’s passing. It’s never easy so just know that you have people who love you and willing to help in any way. Love, Carol and Al.

    Reply
  6. mary lees says

    December 24, 2018 at 3:51 pm

    So sorry to hear of your loss Jon and Mallory. Mary and Jack.

    Reply
  7. Doug Savage says

    December 22, 2018 at 4:41 pm

    Adam and Family, so sorry for your loss, Doug, Daryl Savage and Family

    Reply
  8. Cheryl & Lawrence Vienneau says

    December 20, 2018 at 9:21 pm

    Adam & Jonathan & families
    We are so devasted to hear about the loss of your Mom. Kathy was such a soft spoken and caring person.
    We had many laughs over the years at Hockey and Baseball.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.

    Reply
  9. Tony and Linda Rosato says

    December 20, 2018 at 7:38 pm

    Dearest Adam, Jonathan and families, our deepest and most sincere sympathies to all of you. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this time. Love Uncle Tony and Linda

    Reply
  10. TNT Minor Hockey says

    December 20, 2018 at 1:54 pm

    Adam, Erin & Family
    With deepest sympathy from all your friends at TNT Minor Hockey

    Reply
  11. Randy & Donna Horan & family says

    December 20, 2018 at 1:51 pm

    Adam & Erin, Jonathan & Mallory and family
    We are sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

    Reply
  12. Natalie Copp says

    December 20, 2018 at 1:21 pm

    Adam I am so sorry for your loss, my sincere condolences to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

    Reply
  13. Bob & Margaret Milligan says

    December 20, 2018 at 11:21 am

    We were so sorry to hear of
    Kathy’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

    Reply
  14. Chris Kremer says

    December 19, 2018 at 8:46 pm

    Jonathan, Adam and families,
    We were so sad to hear that Kathy had passed away; we always had so much fun together at the rink over the years.
    Chris, Hugh and Michael

    Reply
  15. Sophie Demianiuk says

    December 19, 2018 at 3:13 pm

    Dear Adam, Jonathan & family:
    We are so sad for you all. Kathy was always so happy to show off photos of her grandchildren when we met occasionally for chinese food. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. May she rest in peace.
    Mike, Sophie, Mike, Ben & Alex

    Reply
  16. Wendy Searle says

    December 19, 2018 at 3:11 pm

    Dear Aunt Marilyn, Ray, Donna, Tim and families. My heart and love goes out to all of you at this very sad time. No words can take away your pain. Kathy and I had some great times together and I will nevdr forget her smile. Heaven now has another beautiful angel to watch over all of us. Taken too soon. Rest in Peace Kathy

    Reply
  17. Anjiue Giguere says

    December 19, 2018 at 9:00 am

    I remember being hockey moms. Always loved Kathy. So very sorry to hear about her passing at such a young ago. My thoughts and prayers are with Adam and Jonathan and families.0

    Reply
  18. Charlene Fry says

    December 19, 2018 at 8:58 am

    Such a heartbreaking time for you all. We remember your mother as such a soft spoken and caring person. Our thoughts are with you.
    Charlene, Alan, Ian and Scott

    Reply
  19. Brenda says

    December 19, 2018 at 1:57 am

    My heart felt sympathy goes out to all of Kathy’s family and friends that knew and loved her. Kathy always was a joy to be around always smiling. Aunt Marilyn, Donna (Brian ) Raymond (Clara) Tim (Lisa) all her grandchildren. Hugs to all
    Auntie Shirley, Brenda and Shayne

    Reply
  20. Wanda says

    December 18, 2018 at 9:56 pm

    To Auntie Marilyn, Cousins Ray, Donna & Tim – sending hugs of love and deepest sympathy for the loss of Kathy. I will cherish fond memories of past times we shared. Kathy’s sweet smile will never be forgotten.

    Reply
  21. Paul and Marj Daniels says

    December 18, 2018 at 6:54 pm

    Dear Adam, Erin, John and Erin, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom, our prayers are with you all at this time. May you feel God’s loving arms surrounding you with his peace.

    Reply
  22. Karen and Larry Turner says

    December 18, 2018 at 6:30 pm

    We’re so sorry for your loss Adam and family, please accept our heartfelt condolences.

    Reply
  23. Colin & Linda Mann says

    December 18, 2018 at 5:52 pm

    So greatly sorry for your loss Adam. Our sincere condolences to you and Erin and Family.

    Reply
  24. Rachel Fabiano says

    December 18, 2018 at 5:43 pm

    Adam, I’m so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

    Reply
  25. Shannon Wheeler says

    December 18, 2018 at 5:29 pm

    Adam, Erin and Family
    I am so sorry to hear of Adam’s Mother’s passing.
    Thinking of you all during this difficult time and hope you are able to remember fondly the memories of holidays past.
    -Shannon Wheeler

    Reply
  26. Trudy Boisclair says

    December 18, 2018 at 4:44 pm

    To Kathy’s family my deepest condolences. She was such a lovely lady. Always loved seeing her for a chat when she used to come see us at the dental office in beeton. God Bless

    Reply
  27. Sheila & Bob Fiander says

    December 18, 2018 at 4:24 pm

    So sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. We are never ready to lose our moms. Our thoughts are with you all.

    Reply
  28. Tod McGoey & Mike McGoey says

    December 18, 2018 at 12:35 pm

    On behalf of the staff at McGoey Bros Insurance Brokers, we send our deepest condolences to Adam and family. May you find comfort in your cherished memories, during this difficult time. Our thoughts are with you.

    Reply
  29. Ann & Wayne Caldwell says

    December 18, 2018 at 11:02 am

    Life will not be the same without you in it my sweet friend. Will miss our times together. Miss you so, so much! Love you!

    Reply
  30. Robert & Karen Ward says

    December 18, 2018 at 9:20 am

    Our deepest sympathies go out to you Jonathan (Mallory), Adam (Erin), Rocco and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

    Reply

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