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Kristen Haire

In Memorial

Haire: Kristen Elizabeth.
After a valiant battle with cancer surrounded by her loving family, on Thursday July 23rd 2020 Kristen Haire at the age of 39 was called home to the Lord. Beloved daughter of Mary and the late Bruce Haire. Cherished mother of William Haire and Felicity Butcher-Haire. Sadly missed by her partner Stuart Butcher and his children Jacob and Alexis. Dear sister of Julie (Anson) Sondergaard and Heather Haire (Derek Bartello). Loving aunt of Anna, Nathan, Simeon, and Charlotte. Fondly remembered by her aunts, uncles, cousins, extended family and many friends. Kristen will be forever remembered for her beautiful smile and adventurous and loving nature. For those of you wishing to share a special memory of Kristen, please email them to [email protected] and they will be shared with her children, in the future.
Visitation will be held at #5947 County Road 13, Everett, Ontario, L0M 1J0, on Friday August 7th from 6-8pm, and Saturday August 8th from 10am until the time of the Celebration of Kristen’s Life service at 12 noon. (If you plan to attend the service at noon on August 8th, please RSVP to http://kristenhaire.app.rsvpify.com as the number of guests will be restricted due to Covid). All safety precautions mandated by the province will be followed and masks are required.

Donations in Kristen’s memory to the Community Living Association for South Simcoe (C.L.A.S.S.) would be appreciated by the family. Flowers can be sent to the above address (416-712-0554).

A recording of the service will be placed on the Funeral Home Facebook page, and the link will be posted here as it becomes available.

Arrangements entrusted to Rod Abrams Funeral Home www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.

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  1. Cameron hehn says

    August 27, 2020 at 7:32 pm

    Kristen Haire was my adventure buddy as there was never a skipped beat when there was something new to try. I feel blessed to have known kristen for 25 yrs and so grateful to have all those snowbounding adventures in Alberta together. All my love and prays to the familly. Thank you Kristen for being my best friend as there hard to find. Rest well my friend.

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  2. Tanya Platt says

    August 22, 2020 at 3:21 pm

    I will forever treasure the years I spent babysitting Kristen as her smile and gentle nature always stood out. She was such a kind girl who I really enjoyed spending time with and am incredibly saddened that her life was cut short. Much love and deep sympathies to her family. The Platt Family

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  3. Kristen Haire says

    August 22, 2020 at 3:17 pm

    I will forever treasure the years I spent babysitting Kristen as her smile and gentle nature always stood out. She was such a kind girl who I really enjoyed spending time with and am incredibly saddened that her life was cut short. Much love and deep sympathies to her family. The Platt Family

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  4. Carol Fraser says

    August 20, 2020 at 3:15 pm

    Mary we are shocked and saddened to read about the loss of Kristen. I still she her today in my Sunday School, such a cute little thing and then a beautiful young lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, The Fraser Family.

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  5. Lloyd and Cheryle MacKenzie says

    August 20, 2020 at 12:09 pm

    We are sadden to hear of Kristen’s passing. Our thoughts are with you all.

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  6. Lori Mollett says

    August 11, 2020 at 7:56 pm

    Across time, Mary and family, please accept my deepest and heartfelt condolences. My heart is with you.

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  7. Tony Quigley says

    August 10, 2020 at 4:20 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of loss. I had the privilege of working with Kristen in the ICT department at SMCDSB. She always brought that infectious smile to work with her daily. What a wonderful young lady and taken far too early. Condolences to the Haire family and to Stuart and her beautiful children. God bless

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  8. Alex says

    August 9, 2020 at 11:54 am

    Kristen and I went to university together and we shared a lot of fun memories. I will always remember sleepovers at her house and helping her with her horses in the mornings. My deepest condolences to her entire family during this unimaginably difficult time. She remains in my thoughts and prayers.

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  9. Tom Naylor says

    August 8, 2020 at 3:25 pm

    My deepest sympathies to all those close to Kristen. I know that she will always be missed. May you find some strength in the power of family at this very difficult time.

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  10. Diane Crittenden says

    August 8, 2020 at 8:49 am

    My deepest condolences to Kristens family. I worked with Kristen at Smcdsb for a few years when she was an ICT tech. When you work with someone daily, they become family. Kristen was very hardworking and so smart. Her determination to solve IT issues left a lasting impression. That determination and spirit was evident in how she lived her life, never letting anything get her down, and finding solutions to any problem thrown her way. And always with a smile. I will miss her.

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  11. Peggy Andrews says

    August 7, 2020 at 9:41 pm

    To all who loved Kristen, I extend my most sincere condolences. A lovely soul taken far too young.

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  12. Doris and Harry Lehman says

    August 7, 2020 at 1:51 pm

    Our sincere condolences to the Haire family. Hopefully all the good memories that you have will help you through this difficult time.

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  13. Laurie Rosie says

    August 7, 2020 at 11:43 am

    My heart goes out to all who loved and cared for her. I will continue to have you all in my thoughts.

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  14. Sandra Cornett says

    August 6, 2020 at 3:53 pm

    To Mary, Julie, Heather and extended
    Family, my deepest condolences.
    I still have memories of Kristen as a
    little girl at Tec South Pudlic school
    – so sweet, so perceptive and so caring of all those around her.

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  15. Darlene Elford says

    August 4, 2020 at 11:11 am

    So sorry for your loss.
    Please accept our Deepest Condolences from the Elford Family

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  16. Brent K says

    August 4, 2020 at 9:43 am

    Kristen and I went to University together. She was one of most nicest, funny and caring person. I was saddened to hear about her passing. My deepest condolences to her family and friends. Please take solace knowing that part of her lives on through her children and family.

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  17. Bob & Margaret Milligan says

    August 4, 2020 at 7:15 am

    So sorry for your loss. Keeping you in our prayers at this time

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  18. Robin & Richard Norcross says

    August 3, 2020 at 8:23 pm

    We are so sad to hear of Kristen’s passing. Our deepest condolences. She was such a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.

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  19. Lori Kirkpatrick says

    August 3, 2020 at 6:48 pm

    We are so sorry to hear of this terrible loss. Our thoughts are with Stu, the kids, and the Haire family. Xoxo

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  20. Sarah Graham says

    August 3, 2020 at 4:21 pm

    Kristen was one of my best friends in High School and even after. I will always remember how kind , how humble and how beautiful her heart was. Kristen was an amazing friend and an amazing mother . I send my condolences to her Family and Friends . I love you Kristen, so sad that you are gone.

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  21. Ian and Vickie Witherspoon says

    August 3, 2020 at 11:32 am

    Dear Mary, Girls and all your families…
    Please accept our deepest sympathies for your way too untimely loss. God Bless.

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  22. Mary Lou and Ed Osborne says

    August 3, 2020 at 10:02 am

    Our deepest condolences to the family.

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  23. Sandi Lovell says

    August 2, 2020 at 10:01 pm

    Thinking of you all…Mary, Julie, Heather, William, Stuart, Felicity and extended family and sending our deepest condolences and prayers. Will remember Kristen as a gentle, caring and loving mum.
    Peter and Sandi Lovell

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  24. Carole and Barry Scannell says

    August 2, 2020 at 8:25 pm

    Stuart, we are very sorry that Kristen has passed away. Please accept our deepest sympathy. God bless. Hugs, Carole and Uncle Barry

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  25. Sue Smith says

    August 2, 2020 at 4:39 pm

    We only met once but Kristen’s courage and smile impressed me so much. Our church Hillside was praying for her and will continue to uphold all the family in our hearts and prayers. Bless you all.

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  26. Pat boland says

    August 2, 2020 at 4:10 pm

    I am so sorry your loss a life taken far too soon .

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  27. Adrian Grbic says

    August 2, 2020 at 1:39 pm

    Stuart and Families, our deepest condolences on your loss. Keeping you in our prayers. Adrian Grbic and Family

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  28. Christine says

    August 2, 2020 at 12:46 pm

    To the family, I am sorry for your loss and I hope that memories will comfort you In this time of pain. I was Kristen’s daughter, Felicity’s Toddler Teacher. I could see the love and bond Felicity and her mom had everyday. That love and relationship that Kristen gave to Felicity, was hugely impactful and will be everlasting.

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  29. Andrew Leroux says

    August 2, 2020 at 10:22 am

    Rembering the entire Haire family, growing up in Beeton as a child. Saddened to hear of Kristen’s passing.

    Andrew Leroux

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  30. Ann and David Thorley says

    August 2, 2020 at 9:07 am

    Mary,Julie Heather and extended family

    We were so saddened to hear of Kirstens passing. Our dearest Sympathy to you all at this time of great sorrow. Remembering you all in our prayers.

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  31. Ann and David Thorley says

    August 2, 2020 at 8:56 am

    Ann and David Thorley

    Mary, Julie, Heather and extended family

    We were saddened to hear of the loss of your daughter Kristen. May God give you all strength at this time of great sorrow. Keeping you all in our prayers. Thinking of you all at this sad time

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  32. Ann and David Thorley says

    August 2, 2020 at 8:49 am

    Mary, Julie, Heather and extended family

    We were so saddened to hear of the loss of your daughter Kristen, may God give you strength at this time of great sorrow. Thinking of you all at this time.

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  33. Bob & Pat Jackson says

    August 1, 2020 at 11:32 pm

    Our sincere condolences to everyone who loved Kristen.

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  34. Annette Derraugh says

    August 1, 2020 at 9:04 pm

    Mary, Julie, Heather and all of Kristen’s family, my deepest condolences to you all. Although I hadn’t seen Kristen in years, I
    will always remember her “calm-in-the-middle-of-a-storm” attitude while working together at the paper. And, of course, her beautiful smile.

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  35. Burkitt family says

    August 1, 2020 at 7:01 pm

    The injustice of life is losing such a special wonderful young woman as Kristen. Many of us will never forget her sunny personality and caring demeanour. Love to you, Mary, Julie, and Heather. Think of you all the time.

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  36. John & Anne Archibald says

    August 1, 2020 at 4:18 pm

    Mary and the entire Haire family:
    We were shocked and saddened to learn of Kristen’s early demise. It is heart-breaking to lose a family member but when that member is a child it is devastating. Our hearts go out to you all. She now joins her Dad in the arms of our Lord. God bless.

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  37. Cochrane says

    August 1, 2020 at 3:45 pm

    Our deepest condolences to Mary and the family, Kristen was a great lady, Kristen worked for Square Boys when we owned it for many years. She left this earth far too young.
    May the lord wrap his arms around you all in this time.
    Jean, Lori & Rob Cochrane

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  38. Madelyn & Hal Rutledge says

    August 1, 2020 at 3:05 pm

    To All of Kristen’s family
    We are so sorry for your loss. Kristen truly was always smiling and had a very loving nature. Such a sad loss. You will all be in our thoughts & prayers.

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  39. Christa Mercer says

    August 1, 2020 at 1:17 pm

    I’m so sorry to Heather Mrs.Haire and the entire Haire family. Sending you condolences, you’ll be in my thoughts.

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  40. Sharon & Don Wilkie says

    August 1, 2020 at 12:41 pm

    Mary so sorry to hear about Kristen. Sad to lose a child.Scott and Patrick send condolences also with good memories of Kristen .

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  41. Ross May says

    August 1, 2020 at 12:37 pm

    My deepest condolences to the Haire family and to her loved ones. Kristen and my daughter were very close friends. It was through that relationship that I had the pleasure of knowing Kristen. She was truly an inspiration and a beautiful young woman both inside and out. She will be deeply missed.

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  42. Cam Lindsey says

    August 1, 2020 at 11:16 am

    To Mary, Julie and Heather So sorry to hear of Kristen’s passing. Kristen had a great sense of humour and a wonderful smile. She was a lovely young lady and will be missed by many. Condolences to all of your family.

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  43. Barb and Ian MacIntosh says

    August 1, 2020 at 10:21 am

    Dear Mary,Julie and Heather, Your loss of a daughter and sister is immeasurable. Take comfort in all the happy memories you have of time shared with her and her wonderful children.
    Our sincere condolences to you and the rest of Kristen’s family.

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  44. Ron and Gail Cadeau says

    July 31, 2020 at 10:04 pm

    So sorry to hear about Kristen’s passing, Mary. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  45. Paula and Bradley Barber says

    July 31, 2020 at 9:43 pm

    I can’t remember a time when I spoke with Kristen, that she wasn’t smiling. She had a beautiful knack of making everyone around her feel happy. I will miss you ice skating on our pond, cutting down your Christmas tree here with us Kristen, I will make sure Felicity hears what a wonderful mother you were to her, and how fought so hard to stay here. We will miss you tremendously. My condolences to her immediate family, and Stu, Alexis and Jacob. xo

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  46. Michael and Lynda Zulauf says

    July 31, 2020 at 7:51 pm

    Michael and Lynda Zulauf:

    We are so saddened by Kristen’s untimely passing. Her radiant smile, quick wit, and contagious chuckle
    will be fondly remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing this lovely young woman.
    Our deep condolences to her family.

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