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Nellie Bontje

In Memorial

BontjeBONTJE, Nellie of Tottenham, peacefully at Southlake Regional Health Centre on Friday April 29, 2016 in her 88th year, predeceased by her beloved husband Case. Loving mother to Paul (Rita), Sonya (Paul) Wright, Charlie (Nancy) and Greg (Anne). Cherished Oma to Rachel, Lindsay, Matthew, Jason and Lissa – Great Oma to Jacob, Ruby and Grace. Sadly missed by her sisters Bep and Trese in Holland. Fondly remembered by many nieces, nephews and friends. Visitation at the Rod Abrams Funeral Home, Tottenham, 905-936-3477 on Thursday May 5 at 2-4 pm and 7-9 pm. Funeral Mass to be held at St. James Church, Colgan on Friday May 6 at 11 am. Memorial donations may be made to the Heart & Stroke Foundation or Southlake Regional Health Care Centre. www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com

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  1. Rose McCormick says

    August 5, 2016 at 8:52 am

    Nellie, I think of you daily. I have so many stories I have wanted to tell you. I think of you when I’m on my deck in the back yard. Know matter who moves in, my neighbor is always Nellie. I am so glad I had the last 14 years with you as my neighbor. You can’t be beat! Rest in peace. Love you.

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  2. joan osborne says

    July 27, 2016 at 9:29 pm

    Our family lived next door to Nellie and Case on 2nd Court in Tottenham.They were wonderful neighbours and when we moved away in1990 we really missed our neighbours and we kept in touch and whenever we visited Tottenham we would drop in to see Nellie. She was always so pleased we would take time to visit. We send all the family our heart felt condolences, we will always remember Nellie and smile, she was just one of those ladies that you don’t forget. Love you Nellie, your neighbours forever Joan, Mike, James and Jennifer

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  3. Robert and Barb Downey says

    May 8, 2016 at 9:18 am

    Condolences to you all on the loss of your mum and grandma. Cherishes all the wonderful memories you have and can share together.
    Robert and Barb Downey

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  4. Marsha MacKinnon McKinley says

    May 6, 2016 at 10:19 am

    On behalf of our entire family, my sincere condolences to all of Nellie’s family and friends. A few years ago,I had the privilege of travelling to Holland with Nellie,Lene,and Corch. I think she knew it would be her last trip home. We spent an enjoyable day in Amsterdam, had lunch and a boat tour – all the while laughing. Nellie, I’ll miss your spirit,wonderful laugh and our chats. May God keep you in the palm of his hand always & forever. Love always, Marsha, Tim & Katherine McKinley

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  5. Willeke de Grooth-Bontje says

    May 5, 2016 at 5:29 pm

    On behalf of my brother and sisters in Holland I send you our sincere condolences with the loss of your mother and oma ,our tante Nelly. What they remember most from her visits to Utrecht, is her outgoing personality and her laughter.
    As for me, I still have very fond memories of the weekends I spent in your home in Palgrave some 45 years ago. The many cups of coffee and the nice talks we had. She always made me feel welcome and at home. I will always remember her spontanious nature and humorous outlook on life. May she rest in peace.
    Willeke de Grooth-Bontje

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  6. Diane Griffith says

    May 5, 2016 at 8:08 am

    My sincere sympathies to Greg & Ann with the loss of your dear mother. She was always such a warm & bright presence every day. Your parents were lifetime friends of my parents (Hank & Enes Van Bemmel) and that friendship was always cherished. Her energy was boundless and her laugh infectious. She will be greatly missed. With Love, Diane Griffith (n. Van Bemmel)

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  7. Jopie Groen says

    May 3, 2016 at 2:46 pm

    Met oprechte deelneming uit Montfoort van Jopie. Veel sterkte toegewenst aan de familie

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  8. Henk & Jane Vermeer says

    May 2, 2016 at 8:59 pm

    Nellie, may you rest in peace and rise in glory. Your warmth and love surrounded all the Vermeer families. We will always cherish time spent with you and the support you gave to us all.
    With loving remembrance from Henk and Jane Vermeer.

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  9. Ken and Bonnie Pratt says

    May 2, 2016 at 8:07 am

    Greg and Ann, sorry to learn of your mother’s passing. No matter what age we are our mom is still that special person who brought you into the world and that connection is so special. She will be in heaven now knowing that for many of her 88 years she had her children, grand children and great grand children to share and enjoy life with. Thinking of you in our prayers Bonnie and Ken

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  10. Brianna Vermeer-Korittko says

    May 1, 2016 at 8:42 pm

    Nellie, so many times I climbed that mountain in your front yard. I’d run from the first court to your house whenever I needed to escape. How many games of trouble did we play while I drank God knows how many mountain dews? Or watched wheel of fortune when I visited on my way home from school. Our trip with mom to webbers and chalk river all those years ago. Your ready presence after Dad and your love of my ever changing hair colour. I will miss you so much, Nellie. I can hardly believe you’re gone.
    There are so many memories that will never leave me, and in this way you will also never leave me.
    Brianna Lina

    To Nellie’s family, I send you so much love. She was amazing, but you already knew that. May your days be filled with love and remembering and joy for the life she lived. May you find comfort in the stories of others and in your own memories.
    Brianna

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  11. Cathy & Michael Beland says

    May 1, 2016 at 1:54 pm

    Here’s to a life well lived and well loved by all. Nellie, you were the best card partner around! Rest peacefully. xo

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  12. Lesley Stroud Jacksch says

    May 1, 2016 at 9:38 am

    I am so sorry to hear of the loss of this amazing lady. You are all in my thoughts. You are now reunited with you wonderful husband and father Case.

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  13. Cory Vermeer- Cuthbert says

    May 1, 2016 at 9:34 am

    Nellie, I will miss you — your laughter, your hugs and kisses, your listening and encouraging ear, your loving heart, your ready guest bed, breakfast and a Timmy’s coffee, your kind concern and care; and above all your parting words — “Take care, kiddo.” Nellie, you are now reunited with your beloved Case. Thanks be to God. corchy

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  14. Cory Vermeer- Cuthbert says

    May 1, 2016 at 9:30 am

    On behalf of the Honinigh family in Holland (Gretha and Henk, Jenny, Geertje, Yonge Wim and Anneke, Nellie will be missed. The Honingh family is grateful for Nellie’s generous hospitality — the bed and breakfast, the cups of coffee, the many games of Rummikub, and the tours around the garden. Gretha and Henk lament they cannot make the journey at this time.

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  15. John & Kaye Groen says

    April 30, 2016 at 4:45 pm

    Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this very sad and difficult time in your life. Praying God gives your mom eternal rest and that she always remains with you in other comforting ways. Wishing you strength to move forward…. Remember and cherish the beautiful memories you shared together always.

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