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Paul Calder

In Memorial

Calder: Paul Alan,
Passed peacefully, surrounded with the love of his family at Margaret Bahen Hospice Newmarket on Monday July 29, 2019. Paul “Hawk Feather” Calder at the age of 73 years, beloved husband of Susan Calder. Loving father of Joshua (Krista), Blythe Calder (Resh), and Alex Calder Karagianis (Andrew). Dearly loved grandfather of Brayden, Ethan, and Jacob. Forever in the hearts of his extended family and friends.
A private family interment of cremated remains has taken place, and a public Celebration of Life will be held at Rod Abrams Funeral Home 1666 Tottenham Rd., Tottenham 905-936-3477, on Saturday August 10, 2019 from 12-2pm, with a time of Spoken Remembrances at 12:30pm. In lieu of flowers, donation in Paul’s memory to Stronach Regional Cancer Centre Newmarket or Margaret Bahen Hospice Newmarket would be appreciated by the family.
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  1. Carol Fraser says

    February 12, 2020 at 3:18 pm

    Dear Susan and family. I just read about the loss of Paul having been laid up all last summer after a fall, I have been way behind in checking up on my friends. So sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. You were a wonderful family and I’m glad to have been a little part of it for so many years.
    Carol and Pete Fraser

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  2. Elliot Scolnik says

    August 13, 2019 at 4:15 pm

    Dear Alex, Andrew, Susan and Calder family: I was very saddened to hear about the loss of your beloved Paul. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time.

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  3. Judith Leeming says

    August 11, 2019 at 9:34 pm

    So very sorry for your loss, Susan. My thoughts and prayers to you and yours, Judy

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  4. Iris Buchan says

    August 11, 2019 at 6:47 pm

    I remember him as a very agreeable newcomer to Taoist Tai Chi with Susan, a few years ago. I am sure you have the sympathies of the Schomberg club, Susan. Hope to see you there soon. Iris

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  5. Brenda Mabbett says

    August 11, 2019 at 11:40 am

    Dear Susan, Alex and family,
    Our condolences and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

    Brenda & Bill Mabbett

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  6. Shayne Coon says

    August 10, 2019 at 10:39 am

    Paul was good friend, mentor, and fellow shooting enthusiast.
    I will remember him fondly.
    Sorry for your loss Susan and family.

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  7. Rudi Degen says

    August 6, 2019 at 8:55 pm

    My condolences to the family. A great cowboy friend has past, but the good memories live on. Hawk Fether will always be in my memory. God bless him.

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  8. Deborah Kesheshian says

    August 2, 2019 at 3:04 pm

    It was an honour to care for Paul at Margaret Bahen Hospice for York Region. On behalf of our entire MB Hospice family please accept our deepest sympathies.

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  9. Ginny Cathcart says

    July 31, 2019 at 11:42 am

    Dear Susan and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

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  10. Dave Castelli says

    July 31, 2019 at 9:57 am

    Paul was always a gentleman.
    He loved his cowboy six shooter and was asset to Islington Sportsmen’s Club

    Condolences to his family and friends

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  11. Gary Howe says

    July 31, 2019 at 9:42 am

    To Paul’s family—- Paul was an easy going fellow you always enjoyed spending time with. I often saw him at the Orangeville Gun Show and we would talk about some project he was working on or a repair he needed help with. Always a pleasure to see him, I feel so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Paul and I’ll see you again at the big range upstairs.

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  12. Ruth Montgomery says

    July 30, 2019 at 10:47 pm

    Dear Susan, I am so sorry to learn that your husband has passed away. Though I didn’t know Paul, I do know that you loved him dearly and will miss him greatly. May God grant you strength and comfort during this time of loss. Thinking of you.

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  13. Yolanda & Paul says

    July 30, 2019 at 8:22 pm

    Our deepest condolences to you and your family Susan.
    Paul aka Hawkfeather was a kind, gentle, funny sole.
    Hawkfeather will be greatly missed at cowboy!
    Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
    So sorry for your loss,
    The Bar-E Rancheros

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  14. Alex says

    July 30, 2019 at 5:27 pm

    I am translating Noémie’s message:
    All my condolences to you Alex, Susan, Blythe and Josh. I lived with your family for 3 months, 18 years ago now. I will keep Paul in my memories as someone who was gentle and kind. I can see him with his cowboy hat, and always with a smile. And those moments of music shared on the guitar were magic.
    Rest in Peace Paul,
    Have courage everyone,
    In friendship,
    Noémie.

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  15. Noémie says

    July 30, 2019 at 4:16 pm

    I prefer write in French…easier for me.
    Toutes mes condoléances à toi Alex, Susan, Blythe et Josh. J’ai vécu dans votre famille pendant 3 mois, il y a 18 ans maintenant. Je garderai comme souvenirs de Paul comme quelqu’un de doux et de gentil. Je le revois avec son chapeau de « cowboy », toujours le sourire aux lèvres. Et ces moments de musique partagés à la guitare étaient magiques.
    Repose en paix Paul,
    Plein de courage à vous,
    Amitiés,
    Noémie.

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  16. Shelley Greenan says

    July 30, 2019 at 3:06 pm

    My condolences to you Susan and your family. Paul was such a great man. He will be sadly missed.
    Peace be with you.

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  17. Sharron & George Kuleshnyk says

    July 30, 2019 at 1:24 pm

    Paul was such a quiet, soft spoken and gentle man but to me when growing up he was a larger than life personality. I’ll hold close to my heart all the memories and will always remember my special cousin Paul. My condolences to everyone in the family.

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  18. Carol and Erin Layton says

    July 30, 2019 at 12:28 pm

    Dear Alex, my sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your father.

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  19. Bonnie and Ken Pratt says

    July 30, 2019 at 12:06 pm

    Sue, Josh, Blythe and Alex and families, we are so sorry to learn of Paul’s passing. He was such a soft spoken fine man who respected nature and loved to talk about his children and grandchildren and his Susan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

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  20. Judy Giraldi says

    July 30, 2019 at 11:25 am

    Loving memories of a warm and gentle man are stored in my heart forever.
    My Sincere Condolences to Susan and Family.
    Peace be with you. ❤️

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