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Ray Lake

In Memorial

Lake: Raymond George,
Suddenly at his home in Alliston on Tuesday February 6, 2018.   Ray Lake in his 87th year, beloved husband of Shirley Lake (nee: Gessey).   Loving father of Daryl Lake (Ronald Goodchild), Wanda teBogt (John), and Tony Lake (Pat Baldwin).   Dearly loved grandfather of Ryan, Kayla, Cory, Adam, Mike, Meagan, Brooke, and Justine.    Forever in the hearts of his extended family and friends.
A Memorial visitation will be held at Rod Abrams Funeral Home 1666 Tottenham Rd. Tottenham 905-936-3477, on Saturday February 17, 2018 from 10:30am until time of Memorial service in the chapel at 12:30pm.  For those who wish donations to Matthews House Hospice or the Heart and Stroke Foundation would be appreciated by the family. www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com

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  1. Susan Jevons says

    March 1, 2018 at 7:39 pm

    So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this sad time.

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  2. Jim and Pat Shacklady says

    February 24, 2018 at 7:45 pm

    We send our deepest sympathy to all. We have fond memories of Ray from curling

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  3. Ann Proper-Thorley says

    February 24, 2018 at 10:15 am

    Dear Shirley and Family

    We were saddened to hear of Ray’s passing. Please accept our sincere condolences. We will always treasure the fond memories we have of both of you when we were so young. Our thoughts are with all of you at this time of sorrow.
    Our love to All

    Ann and David Thorley

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  4. Karen J. Dow says

    February 20, 2018 at 12:21 pm

    my thoughts and prayers are with you Shirley and your family.

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  5. Susan Doughty says

    February 17, 2018 at 9:17 am

    Shirley and Family..Bob and I were sadden to hear of Ray’s passing. Our thoughts are with you today as your family and friends gather to celebrate Ray’s life.

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  6. Joan and Jack Colwell says

    February 16, 2018 at 7:58 pm

    Shirley and Family…Jack and I were shocked to hear about Ray’s passing. Our condolences go out to all of the family. This is the time to pull together and remember the good times you had with him. We certainly had many memorable times over the years. Ray could be serious when needed but often his sense of humour would peep through when he was trying to hold your attention. He will be missed by all his friends but he is now at peace. “

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  7. Bob & Anne Kellam says

    February 16, 2018 at 4:02 pm

    Tony–Sorry to read of your Dad’s passing

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  8. Linda Nixon says

    February 16, 2018 at 1:38 pm

    Dear Shirley,
    So sorry to hear of Ray’s passing. You and your family will miss him very much.

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  9. Alberta Mason-Reynolds says

    February 15, 2018 at 7:33 pm

    Shirley and Family!

    I am so sorry for your loss!! Ray was a great man and will be missed! Thinking of the family at this hard time!

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  10. Sharon Wadel( Lisk) says

    February 15, 2018 at 12:25 pm

    My condolences to you Shirley and family.. I remember when you lived on the street where Mom lived and you called my oldest son Sunshine face because he was always smiling.. That was about 50 years ago..

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  11. Jim & Mae Aiken & Family says

    February 15, 2018 at 11:22 am

    Our sincere condolences to Shirley,Darryl, Wanda,Tony & families.
    Many, many fond memories when our families lived in Beeton
    love to all,
    Mae & Jimmie

    darryl

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  12. Juanita Erni says

    February 14, 2018 at 5:32 pm

    Mrs. Lake, Wanda, Daryl, Tony and families.
    Thoughts and prayers for all.
    Mr. Lake was always teasing and cracking jokes. You really had to be on your toes. Lots of good memories at your place in Beeton.

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  13. Legria & Peter says

    February 14, 2018 at 4:24 pm

    Both Peter & I share in your pain at the loss of a dear friend. We are very sorry for your loss of your friend and husband. Our hearts are always with you

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  14. Kelly (Hacking) Cochrane says

    February 13, 2018 at 8:44 pm

    Mrs. Lake, Daryl, Wanda and Tony,
    Sincere condolences to all of you. Mr. Lake was always so kind. Cherish all the happy memories you must have. My thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time.

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  15. Nancy (Hacking) Shaw says

    February 13, 2018 at 9:25 am

    Dear Mrs. Lake, Wanda, Tony and Daryl,
    Carl and I were sorry to hear about Mr. Lake’s passing. I fondly remember him from the many fun days in your backyard in Beeton. Our thoughts are with your family at this time.

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  16. John Hacking says

    February 12, 2018 at 8:35 pm

    Dear Shirley & Family.
    I’m so very sorry for your loss, and hope you will find comfort in your many happy memories of Ray.
    Sincerely,
    John Hacking

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  17. Linda and Sam Furtado says

    February 11, 2018 at 8:42 pm

    Dear Shirley , We were sad to hear of Ray’s passing . Ray was indeed a dear man always gracious and kind. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.

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  18. June Grandy says

    February 11, 2018 at 3:17 pm

    Shirley and family my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time

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  19. Gary Coleman says

    February 11, 2018 at 1:41 pm

    Shirley and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Ray was always smiling and will continue to do so on your family.

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  20. Peggy Poulsen says

    February 11, 2018 at 12:54 pm

    Shirley and family I am so very sorry to read of the loss of your husband, father and grandfather. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

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  21. Linda Armstrong says

    February 11, 2018 at 12:42 pm

    Shirley and family.
    My heart goes out to you with the loss of a dear husband and father. I know what you’re going through and I pray all of you will stay strong for each other. Family is the strongest link of all.

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  22. Alan & Wendy Masters & family says

    February 11, 2018 at 12:22 pm

    We are so very sorry Shirley for your loss of Ray. Such a great guy and we have so many wonderful fun memories. All of you are in our hearts,thoughts and prayers.

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  23. Susie Robinson says

    February 11, 2018 at 11:41 am

    Sorry for your loss.You are in my thoughts. Memories will help you through these sad times.Sincere Condolences

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  24. Mollie @ Jasper says

    February 11, 2018 at 10:30 am

    So sorry to hear about Ray. Our thoughts are with you Shirley and your family at this time.

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  25. The Jordan family says

    February 11, 2018 at 9:34 am

    Dear Shirley and family I am so sorry for this loss. What I can tell you is that Ray and you are such a huge part of our family and always will be. Our memories are so beautiful. Ray taught my kids to swim and be respectful. He was a mentor to me and life long friends to my parents. God has another angel.

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