Ronald Henry Totty passed away peacefully, surrounded by family, on November 16, 2025, at the age of 78. Beloved husband of Deborah Totty (née Hawthorne).
Loving father of the late Warren Totty, Melissa Totty Hatfield (Brandon), Sam Totty (Courtney), and cherished grandfather of Lily and Jace Hatfield. Dear brother of Rachelle Totty and Lea Totty. Fondly remembered by his stepchildren Kristen Ireland (Rodney) and Sarah King (Vincent David), and as a caring grandfather to Ellie and Isaac Ireland. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered by his nieces and nephews, extended family, and many friends.
Ron devoted 35 years to the Metro Toronto Police Service, concluding his distinguished career as a Detective Sergeant. Throughout his tenure, he upheld the highest standards of integrity and commitment, dedicating himself to the protection and service of his community. His career stands as a testament to his unwavering character – a legacy that remains a source of immense pride for all who knew him.
In retirement, Ron embraced life fully. He and Deb spent cherished winters in Florida with lifelong friends, creating memories not soon forgotten. Known as the life of the party, Ron had a quick wit and a commanding presence that filled every room with warmth and energy, leaving an indelible mark on all who knew him
He loved working with his hands whether in the barn, around the house, or in his well-stocked tool room and took great joy in building and fixing things. A passionate country music enthusiast, Ron found inspiration in the legends he admired Nelson, Conley, Cash, and Stapleton and never missed an opportunity to share a story or reflection.
A Celebration of Ron’s Life will be held at Rod Abrams Funeral Home, 1666 Tottenham Rd., Tottenham (905-936-3477), on Sunday, November 23, 2025, from 11:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. in the funeral home’s Cliffside Hall. Interment of cremated remains will follow at Mt. Tegart Cemetery at a later date.
Please share a memory, a story, a laugh or your condolences with the family online at www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.
Ron will be forever remembered for his love of family, his laughter, and his unwavering strength. His presence was a gift, and his memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.
“Blue skies smiling at me, nothing but blue skies do I see.” — Willie Nelson
Service
Celebration of Life
Rod Abrams Funeral Home Ltd.
1666 Tottenham Rd. Tottenham Ontario, L0G1W0
Sunday, November 23, 2025
11:00am - 2:00pm
John & Linda Rupert says
Deb we have now just heard of Ron’s passing and want to offer our sincere condolences to you and to the family and friends. He was a great man and we are so thankful that we met him and shared some time together in Country Park.
Hugs
John & Linda Rupert
Rick Rolfe says
Condolences to Ron’s family and friends. He also had a police family. He was a giant of a man who was loved and respected by all who worked with him.
Patricia Meathrell says
Dear Debbie and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Ron was the love of your life and best friend.
I am thinking of you at this difficult time.
Love,
Pat (Duncan) Meathrell
John Merrick says
Just heard of Ron’s passing today. My sincere condolences to his family.
Andrea says
To Debbie, Kristen, and Family!
My heartfelt condolences to you all during this sad and difficult time. Just from my brief encounters with Ron, you could tell what a joyful and fun-loving guy he was! May the memories you made together over the years offer solace and some peace as you navigate the grief.
Brian Clark says
I worked with Ron in the Hold Up Sqd. during the 1970s; we had many interesting and successful investigations. Ron was a dedicated officer and an excellent investigator with the Toronto Police Service. My condolences to his family. Rest in peace, my friend.
Nora Hyde says
To Debbie and family, I’m saddened to hear of the sudden loss of your dear husband Ron. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May Ron rest in peace.
Roy Foster says
Rest In Peace my friend
You will always be remembered for your reputation as an excellent Officer and mentor
Retired Detective Roy Foster
Ryan Lynch says
Our deepest condolences to the Totty family.
With love,
Stef & Ryan
Karen Grehan says
Sorry to hear of Ron’s passing. Sincere condolences from Jamie and I.
Reuben F. Earle says
If anyone knew Ron then they were much richer in their personal life. At work we would go for drives to just get out of the office and we would be in different parts of the city and he would start telling me stories from his past while he was in the Toronto Police Holdup Squad (HUS). Ron always put a comical spin on on these stories and I would have to pull over because he had me laughing so hard I was in tears.
Ron was a multi talented gentleman, a father, husband, cattle farmer, great dancer, story teller and police officer.
Ron will be missed by his entire family and anyone who ever knew him. My deepest condolences to the entire family.
I’m sorry I can’t make Ron’s celebration of life as I am battling Cancer.
Cousin Sandra Jones says
My condolences to the family. It was with sadness to hear of Ron’s passing.
Brenda Callen says
My sincerest condolences to Debbie, my dearest friend Rachelle, Sam, Melissa, Lea and all the family. I’ve known Ronnie since about the age of 13. What a great guy and family man he was!! Didnt see him a lot over the years, but always in touch with Rachelle and knew how he was doing. I will never forget my last visit to Ron and Debbie’s, with Rachelle. We reminisced, told some old and new stories and had some great laughs! I’ll never forget that laugh and how he always made you feel so welcome and cared for. I’ll never forget you Ronnie and may you now rest in well deserved peace. My love and hugs to all the family. Brenda (Newman) Callen
Robert Maccallum says
My condolences to the Totty family. I will always remember Ron as a Straight up guy.
Ed Hoey says
I’m sorry to hear about Ron’s passing. The Toronto Police had a few outstanding characters, and Ron was one of them. He was a great workmate with a sunny personality that lightened your day. Thanks for the memories Ron.
My sincere condolences to the Totty family circle.
Kevin & Lori Hollingshead says
Melissa, Brandon and family
Our sincerest condolences. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Autumn & Paul says
Dear Debbie & family,
We are saddened to hear of Ron’s passing. Our thoughts and condolences are with you at this time.
Sharon says
Debbie, Rachelle, Sam and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss, and everyone’s loss of this wonderful man. Our world would be a better place with more men like Ronnie.
Kind, wise, fiercely loyal and protective of his family, crazy funny, (handsome-well done Debbie!).
Private prayer with him confirmed just how much he loved his family.
Massive Hugs & Continued Prayers,
Sharon and Grant
Frank Smith says
An honourable work mate ..and truely a cops cop ! Great guy…Our years together at the Holdup Squad were memorable! Same class from College too!
Michele Tomlinson says
Dear Sam and family, our deepest condolences. I remember the great conversations with your dad when you and Mitchell played ball together. May he rest in peace.
The Tomlinson Family XO
Debbie says
So very sorry for your family’s loss! We didn’t know Ron very well, but it sounds like he had a love for life and his family!
Our condolences to all of the family members!
Mark and Debbie Ireland(Rodneys’s uncle and aunt)
Jean Smyth says
Deb
Our deepest condolences. We have so many lovely memories. Remember our crazy trip to Lunenberg.? I can still see Ron dancing in our little screened porch on Kawagama Lake. The boy had moves… He will be missed. You keep on truckin.. girl.
Love from Port Dover
Lenore and Gary Hogan says
Debbie and Sam. We were saddened to hear of Ron’s passing. He was a great husband and dad. May you find solace at this sad time.
Lenore and Gary Hogan
Nancy Wright says
Debbie and family,our deepest sympathy on your loss of a wonderful person Ron.His warm character and fabulous smile were so comforting and genuine.What a blessing that you were able to have such quality time with your life’s companion.Love& hugs,Nancy&George Wright
Merron Gottardi says
Dear Debbie and family. I am so very sorry to learn that wonderful Ron is no longer with us. You two were a match for the ages and I am saddened that the love of your life is gone.
May your magnificent family and your wide circle of friends provide the care and support you will need as you grieve his loss.
Thinking of you.
Love,
Merron
Shirley Turner says
I’m so sorry to hear of Ron’s I have so many memories of our great times in Florida. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bairbre Matthews says
Deb, so sorry to hear of your loss.
Ron always seemed to be an extension of you and vice versa. I will be thinking of you
through this tough time
Sincerely
Bairbre
Valerie and John Madill says
So sorry to hear of Ron’s passing. Sending you our condolences and love.
Linda Cocchiola says
Debbie and family, I’m so sorry for your loss. Life is very difficult after you lose the love of your life, but you are a strong woman. Take it from me who is still going down that road after 10 years, it’s not something you get over but it’s something you get through. Just remember that you have family and friends who will be there for you. God bless you all.
Sandra Hyslop says
Dear Debby and family
You are in our thoughts at this most difficult time.
Sandy and Bruce Hyslop
Roberta Hannon says
Deb, I’m so sorry to hear about Ron’s death. He was such a happy man and always made everyone laugh and enjoy life just a little bit more. I’ve missed seeing the two of you. Take care and God bless you!
Love, Roberta Hannon (Ted and Sue Mandabach’s friend) well, and Scott and Brenda too.
Paulette Poitras Tunstall says
Debbie and family, so sorry to read about Ron’s passing. My heart breaks for you. Focus on your wonderful memories, they belong to only you. Rest in peace….. you certainly left your mark and were loved by all. Hugs
Arlene &Murray says
We will miss him. A great guy, gone to soon.
Ginny & Ivor Cathcart says
Dear Melissa and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Keep your memories close and soon they will become gifts. Holding you all in our thoughts & prayers.
John & Darlene Kersey says
We are so very sorry for your loss. Ron was such an amazing person, in every sense. He will be so missed! Sending love and prayers to all, at this most difficult time.
John & Darlene
Sandi Beach McLean says
Dear Debbie and Families
I offer my condolences in the passing of Ron.
He had the most beautiful “smiling eyes, and
quick sense of humour.
Sincerely,
Sandi Beach, McLean
Mary and Rolan Robinson says
Rolan and I were so sad to hear of the passing of Ron. There are not enough words to describe the fun, the laughter and the adventures we shared when we were neighbors in Loretto. Rolan and I will cherish the memories shared with this man that was larger than life and so funny. Rest easy Ron. You will be missed by everyone who was blessed to know you. Condolences to Debbie and the family. You were blessed with the best
Suzanne plowman says
Dear Debbie and family. Deepest sympathy. You had so many wonderful years together.
Memories: I think he had a bit of a stroke when he proposed. You told the story as only you could!!
I remember the work shower during Covid. Some really unusual gifts and what a great day that was.
I am happy you had so many great years in Florida.
Lynne Giannini says
We are so deeply sorry for you and your family’s’ loss. We have so many fond memories of Ron. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Mike and Lynne Giannini
Jean Molloy says
My sincere condolences to all who loved him
Jean Molloy
Sue Mandabach says
Deb, my heart is broken for you!! The love you two shared was a testament to marriage. I loved that man, he was one of the most knowledgeable caring, life of the party guys ever. Our shared memories in Florida, the cruises, the laughs, the card playing., Ron will be forever remembered. What a huge loss to your family, know you are in my prayers and I love you dearly. RIP dear Ron
Nancy Chapple says
Dear Debbie and Family,
I’m so sorry to hear of Ron’s passing. He was indeed a lovely man and I hope that your many fond memories will, in time, bring you some comfort. With love and hugs,
Nancy Chapple
Erik Kihlanki says
All my condolences for the Tooty
Chris Slik & Heath Miller says
Our heartfelt condolences on your loss. Thinking of you, Deborah, Melissa, Brandon, Lily, and Jace during this difficult time.
Chris & Heath
Sandi Lockett says
We’re so very sorry for your loss!
Sending love and hugs to you all
May the memories you’ve created bring you comfort and peace as you navigate this difficult time
Much love,
Jim, Sandi, Cody, Hailey, Kali, Kuzco and Frida