Ivany: Sterling.
At Royal Victoria Health Centre, Barrie, on Wednesday July 22nd, 2015. Sterling Ivany, in his 78th year, beloved husband of Violet “Vi” (Cake). Loving father of Sterling (Elyned) and Trudy (Kevin) Ronan. Remembered with love by his grandchildren Gregory, Connor, Duncan, Grace and Maddie. Dear brother of Marjorie Clark, Ena (Moses) Spurrell and the late George and Arthur. Sadly missed by his sisters-in-law Dorothy (Harry) White, Amelia (late Sandy) Jones and brothers-in-law Gordon (late Lillian) Cake, Frank Cake (Joan), and David (Carol-Ann) Cake.
The family will receive friends at Rod Abrams Funeral Home, 1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham, 905-936-3477 on Friday July 24th, 2015 from 2-4 and 7-9 pm. Funeral service will be held in the Church of the Evangelists, 99 Queen Street, North, Tottenham, 11:00 am Saturday July 25th, 2015 followed by interment in Mt. Tegart Cemetery, Tottenham. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Church of the Evangelists, 99 Queen Street, North, Tottenham, L0G 1W0 would be appreciated by the family. www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com
Roy and Nancy Laver says
Our deepest condolenses. Thinking of you all.
John Schmelefske and Alice Buchanan says
Condolences to the whole Ivany Family. Hope your fond memories soon override your sadness and grief.
Sheri Sallows says
Our sincere condolences to the Ivany family. Thinking of you all.
Sheri & Family
Karl and Jan Stewart says
VI,Trudy,Sterling and Families
We were very saddened to learn of Sterlings’ passing.We were unable to express our sympathy in person.Sterling will be missed by anyone who was acquainted with him. HIs church especially where he was so dedicated to.
Keep in you heart the treasured memories.God Bless
Brenda Malone says
To: Trudy & Family
So sorry to hear of the sudden passing of your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, your Mom and your brother’s family at this difficult time. God bless.
Dian Bignell (Hunter) says
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Sterling’s passing. He was such a wonderful dear man, always busy doing something, and smiling. Both Sterling and Vi were always very helpful and made me feel like family. I enjoyed our visits very much. My thoughts and prayers to Vi and family at this difficult time.
Richard Belford says
Vi and family,
I was sorry to hear that we lost Sterling, a quiet and gentle man with a kind and welcoming spirit. You two always made us feel like family and Sterling’s warmth and humour will be missed.
Meaghan Malone says
Aunt Vi, Trude, Grace, Maddie, and Sterling,
My heart is aching for you all. Uncle Sterl was truly a beautiful soul, and I would always look forward to seeing you during your summer visits. While he was soft spoken and soft hearted, I’ll remember him most for his little smirk and for never passing up an opportunity for a gentle tease – “Got a boyfriend, Meaghan?” He was giving and kind, the type of person who wouldn’t think twice about building a sandbox to keep a three-year old occupied during a family visit to Tottenham.
I last saw Uncle Sterl when he and Aunt Vi surprised Pop for his 90th birthday party, and what a wonderful final memory to have of him – smiling, dancing, and surrounded by family. I have been thinking about you constantly these last few days, but I know your memories and faith will comfort you as you celebrate his wonderful life. Sending all my love.
Paul Malone says
Dear Aunt Vi, Trudy, Sterling, and families. I think my first impression upon meeting Uncle Sterl back in 1976 or 77, was that he was a quiet, gentle soul who wouldn’t hurt a fly. Soft spoken, unassuming. Until I saw him play 120’s! I had played 120’s before meeting Bev, but it was only upon meeting Vi and Sterling at the Cake’s that I learned that 120’s could be a violent, bare knuckles sport! I don’t know how they didn’t all have broken knuckles by the end of their visits back to Newfoundland, slamming their hands down on that table in the Cake’s kitchen, and shaking the bulbs in the light fixture in the kitchen down below! He loved everyone, and everyone loved him! RIP Uncle Sterl!
Rosanne (Malone) Delaney says
Trudy, I was saddened to learn of your father’s death and wanted to extend my sympathy. My memories of happy times spent with your Dad help you to find peace in this difficult time.
Nancy and Janice says
Sorry to hear of your Fathers passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Trudy at this time.
Judy & Andy Henderson says
Sterling will definitely be missed. Vi you will have to pick up his slack and give me 2 hugs when I get to church. Thinking of you and your family.
Nancy Hawke says
Vi,Trudy,Sterling andfamily So sorry to hear of Sterlings passing he was a great friend and a very caring man I will miss him and his friendly smile.
Evelynwadden says
Just heard this morning of sterlings passing,my deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss.
Jason, Janet & Zachary Spurrell says
Aunt Vi, Sterling, Trudy & family,
Please accept our deepest condolences on the passing of wonderful Uncle Sterling. He was truly one of the kindest and loving men I ever met. Whenever he visited when we were kids, he always took time to spend with us and play with us. And then I got the opportunity to see him interact with my own son in the same way. He loved his family and his family loved him.
He will be missed. We wish we could be there with you all as you celebrate this beautiful life.
Sylvia Curnew-Yearman says
So sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. Sincere Sympathy to you and your family. Sylvia.
Elaine & Pius Pittman says
Just heard this morning of Sterling’s passing. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss.
Shirley and Nolin Morrow says
Vi,Sterling, Trudy and family. Deepest condelences on the passing if Sterling. We will remember his kind and caring spirit. Please know we continue to keep your families in both our thoughts and prayers.
Shirley and Nolin
Lynnette Morrow says
Vi,Sterling,Trudy and families. I was truly sorry to learn the passing of your dad; I will always remember his warm, welcoming smile. Deepest sympathies and many prayers to you all. May you find comfort and peace in the memories you shared.
Joan House says
Shocked to hear of the passing of Sterling. Remembering younger years and his happy and unique personality. God be with you Vi and your family as you pass through this vale of sorrow. Remember God is there during this wilderness experience. He will bring much comfort. God be with you in a special way. Love Joan and Dave House
Barbara Foote says
Violet,and families,
I was sad to hear of Sterlings passing. I remember him in Lamaline visiting Mom & Dad (Rita & Wes Foote) and both of them over to your house having meals together and enjoying the great game of cards. He was a very gentle and caring person, and Mom loved to carry in good fun as she would say. She often brought a tear to Sterling and it didn’t take much. I also remember the year we were in Lamaline and it was Sterlings birthday so Mom wanted to have a birthday party for him. He so much appreciated it. He is now with Mom and Dad and I am sure they are all having a Party and Mom playing the organ singing hymms. I will be keeping you in my prayers in the days ahead. Hold onto the memories and keep strong. God Bless.
Charlotte Traverse says
Trudy, Kevin, Grace & Maddie,
I am truly sorry for your loss. I know your hearts must be breaking at this time. Grace shared such wonderful stories with me of her granddad that brought me back to my childhood and I know what a strong role model he was for her and the bond of love that was shared between you all. May God bless you and wrap His arms around you at this time to help you and your family through your grief. Charlotte, Placentia, Newfoundland
Renee Rick Daniel and Carly says
To Aunt Vi, Trudy , Sterling and families. So sorry to hear of Uncle Sterlings passing. Sad to say I didn’t know him well but I do remember him as a kind and caring man. I hope my son can be have a man he was. The last time I saw him was at our wedding. You will be miss. Love Renee Rick Daniel and Carly.
Jeannette & Jim Ferrie says
Vi, Sterling, Trudy & Families, We were very sad to hear the sad news about Sterling’s passing. Sterling was such a nice man and he will be missed by all who knew him.
Steven and Lynn Kennedy says
We moved to Tottenham in 1981 and dear Sterling has always been a solid, quiet, good neighbor whom we befriended. He will be sadly missed by all of us. His daughter, Trudy babysat our boys in their early years so the Ivany family is close to us and will continue as such. Farewell, Sterling.
Anne and John Archibald says
Vi and family, we send our deepest regards in your time of sorrow. Sterling gave so much to his church and community and will be missed by many.
Roger Ivany and family says
Aunt Vi , Trudy , Sterling , Aunt Ena and family we are so sorry to hear of Uncle Sterling’s passing . Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time ! God Bless you all Roger , Kerri & Alyssa
david & josie cake says
Please accept our deepest condolences on the passing of a loving husband and father. I will always remember the early days at 5 Symonds place where you both met and your love for each blossomed and grew.
Clyde & Mildred Seaward says
Sorry to hear of Sterling’s passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy. Love & prayers.
Lee & Tim Doyle says
Trudy, Kevin & girls. We are so sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad/Grandpa. I’m sure he will be greatly missed. We are keeping you in our prayers.
Nadine and Christopher Martjn says
We send our sincere thoughts and prayers to Aunt Vi, Trudy, Sterling and family. We will remember Uncle Sterling as a kind and caring uncle and loving brother to our mother. He was so very proud of his family and his grandchildren. He will surely be missed.
Dallas & Jim says
Jim and I are so sorry to hear of Sterlings passing,our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family,God Bless
Phil and Pauline Apperly says
We will not be at the service as we are in U.K. at present. Our thoughts and prayers, however, will be with the family, and his friends from the Church of the Evangelists.
Sterl will be missed by everyone who knew him. We know he will enjoy the desserts in heaven!
Marie McKillican says
Vi and family So sorry for your loss. Keep your good memories close and take care of each other.
Marie Mckillican
Mike,Carmen and family says
We are saddened and shocked to hear about Sterlings passing. He was a very kind funny man with a great sense of humour. He will be truly missed.
)Ann(Hamlyn)mccarthy says
Violet and family
So sorry to hear of the lose of your beloved husband and father. May his gentle soul rest in peace
Paula and Tim Marengeur says
Sterling, Elyned, Gregory, Connor and Duncan, we are very sorry for your loss. You know that we are here if you need anything as you have been here for us over the years. Hugs to all of you during this most difficult and tragic time.
Gail and Florence Malone says
To Mrs. Violet Ivany, Stirling, and Trudy and your families. We want to extend our sincere condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time, as you morn the loss of your dear husband and father.
Marilyn Penney says
Violet and Family,
Deepest and sincere condolences to you and your family. Sterling was a great man and will be truly missed. May the love and strength of family and friends comfort you all at this time.
Marilyn (King) Penney and Family.
Valerie and ArtThornhill says
♡★♡ Our hearts ache for you my dear cousin. We will always remember Sterling as the most hospitable, kind, and fun – loving man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children as you bid a temporary farewell to Sterling.
We loved him too.
Hugs, love, prayers.
Art and Valerie
—Regretfully Bruce is in Europe, and Joanne is visiting in AB. We have let them know….
Marilyn & Jim Doyle says
Vi and Family,
So sorry to hear of Sterling’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We will always remember our visits and chats with him in Lamaline. He was such a fine gentleman. We know you will treasure his memories, as we will.
Sharon& Keith Jones. says
Aunt Vie & Family. Sorry ^ saddened to hear of Uncle Sterlings passing. Thinking of you all. MAy you all feel comforted today by the caring thoughts of those around you. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure to hold. Love to all.
irene ploughman says
vi and family so sorry to hear of sterling passing, our deepest sympathy to all. RIP Sterling IrenePloughman and John Deagen
carol arsenault says
Violet&family
WE were saddened to hear of Sterling’s passing.our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time
May his gentle soul rest in peace
carol & Joe
charles@shirley flynn says
Vi and Family we are sorry to hear of sterlings sudden passing. I remember sterl at the corner brook garage around 1956. we will not forget.RIP old friend
Linda Armstrong says
Sterling and Trudy
I couldn’t believe it when I saw the death notice.My sympathy is extended to all of you.
Armand & Daphne Richard says
Vi and Family,
We were saddened to hear of Sterling’s passing, our thoughts are with you at this time. Remembering his love of cards and our visits when we lived in Ontario and your visit with us here in NB. And of course, remembering him as our neighbour in Trinity when we were growing up next door to each other. Our sincere sympathy to all.
Natalie Copp says
Vi, Sterling, Trudy and Families. I still cannot believe that Sterling is no longer with us my heart is heavy. He sure was a special person like a brother to me. I will miss him for sure. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. We all have a lot of memories. RIP my friend.
Leslie Cake says
Aunt Vi, Trudy and Sterling,
My condolences on the passing of a loving husband and father. Uncle Sterl was one of my favorite uncles. I remember well several games of cards with Uncle and Aunt and will cherish his memory.
My thoughts are with you during this most difficult time.
Les Cake
Frank & Joan says
Vi, Sterling, Trudy and all the Family.
Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time. Sorry we are unable to be with you. Sterling was such a special man, he was one of the best. May you find comfort in your happy Memories of his life with you. Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you all.
June and Winston White says
Vi and family.
So sorry to learn of Stirling’s sudden passing. He was a very special person and he will be missed by all. Thinking of you at this very difficult time.
Leon & Anne Schenko says
Vi Sterling & Trudy
Leon & I were very sad to
hear of Sterling passing.
He was such a happy guy,
and will be missed.
Marjorie Kennedy (Jones ) says
Aunt Vi,Sterling,Trudy and Families . Uncle Sterling was a Man that once you met him you loved and adored him. He had a kind loving heart. Good Men are hard to find but Aunt Vi you hit the Jackpot finding Uncle Sterling. His Children and Grandchildren had the most wonderful loving Father and Grandfather God Bless Uncle Sterling Stay Strong Aunt Vi. Mom was reaching out her arm yesterday and she said that she saw Sterling.We asked her to give him a big Hug from us when she meets him soon in Heaven . ALL OUR LOVE FOREVER
Gloria Younie says
Vi and loved ones
Sincere sympathy to you and all the family. Sweet memories of a sweet gentleman, Sterling.
Gloria and daughter, Terry
Gary Cake says
Aunt Vi, Trudy and Sterling,
Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. We are truly sorry, and hope that you will find some comfort in the days ahead from your cherished memories of Uncle Sterling.
Gary, Elizabeth and Family
Paulo Melo says
My heart felt condolences to the Ivany family. Many a day in my youth, I spent at the Ivany household. Sterling Sr. love of the Canadiens. The talks in the kitchen with him and his wife Vi. I will never forget. May you rest in peace sir.
Robert and Maureen Murdock says
Sterling was a true gentle soul. His service to his Church was only surpassed by his love for his family. The community of Tottenham and the Church of the Evangelists will miss a wonderful member. His compassion during my dear Pat’s illness and passing will always be remembered. My heart and prayers go out to Vy and the extended Ivany family.
Bob & Pat Jackson says
Vi & Family
We are so very sorry for your loss.
Glenn and Cathy Cake says
Aunt Vi, Trude, Sterling and families-
Uncle Sterl was truly one of my favorites. I can remember him always being such a strong and powerful- yet gentle and caring man. He used to take me to watch soccer games during our many summer visits to Tottenham. I can also remember him taking me out in the speedy sliver colored Fiero- and letting me drive !!!
In later years, I remember he and Aunt Vi being the most gracious of hosts at their cozy dwelling in Lamaline- great grub, a few tunes and some great laughs. Cathy and I cherish those memories.
I know that you all have so many fond memories of your Dad. He provided you both with a solid childhood- giving you opportunities that we today- as parents- strive to give our very own kids. He was truly a role model and had a very positive impact on me as child. He always made time to include the younger folk – entertaining, good natured teasing and making us part of the fun !
Julian and Shelley Hewitt says
Violet, Sterling, Elyned, Trudy, Kevin and kids, we just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you all during this very sad time. Cherish your many wonderful memories as he continues to live on in all of you. We are thinking and praying for you all. Julian and Shelley
Gladys Cake says
Violet, Sterling, Trudy and families, sorry to hear of Sterling’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless You! Gladys
Susan and Jack Neve says
Our prayers are with you Vi at this time. He was such a wonderful man and friend. Our condolences to all the family.
Millard and Jackie Eccles says
Our prayers and condolances are with your family Vi. Stirling was such a peaceful man to share time with. We will miss him. May he rest in peace.