Wendy Rose Anne Friedrich (née Weeda), passed away peacefully on April 12, 2026 at the age of 63 after her battle with cancer. Beloved wife of Tom Friedrich, High School sweethearts, and loving mother of Benjamin Friedrich (Eliza) and Erika Strucke (Terrence), Oma to Mazikeen and Colter Strucke. Her last words were “I love you guys” while holding the hands of her children and husband – a sentiment which is returned ten-fold by her family and friends.
Wendy will be missed by her siblings Paul (Joanne) Weeda, Bert (Rachel) Weeda, Bill Weeda, Theo Weeda (Barb), Rudy (Debbie) Weeda, Ron (Pam) Weeda, and Norma (Tom) Truckel. She is predeceased by her loving parents, Meeuwis and Hendrinais, sister Ria (the late Rick Kenny), and sister-in-law Anita. She will be forever in the hearts of her nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends.
A Celebration of Wendy’s Life will be held in the Cliffside Hall on Sunday, April 26, 2026, from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at Rod Abrams Funeral Home, 1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham (905-936-3477).
In memory of Wendy, flowers may be sent to Rod Abrams Funeral Home. Purple was her favourite colour.
Condolences and memories may be shared with the family at www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.
Service
Celebration of Life
Rod Abrams Funeral Home Ltd.
1666 Tottenham Road Tottenham, ON L0G 1W0
Sunday April 26, 2026
1:00pm - 4:00pm
Carmeta Milligan says
I was so sorry to have missed the memorial service. Wendy and I were almost the same age, and grew up here in Alliston together. I felt so bad to hear about her battle with cancer. I truly feel for the family and her friends who will miss her. I used to preach with her mother, who firmly believed in the resurrection of the dead. We look forward to seeing both of them, when the earth is a much better place to live on. When there is no more sickness, pain or death. Revelation 21:3,4.
CARMETA MILLIGAN(TRUCKEL)
Shawn Smith says
I am very sorry for your loss. Wendy was always very helpful and courteous, and very knowledgeable. Thinking of the family at this time.
Shawn Smith
Susanne M Troyer-Pantle says
I am so very sorry to hear of Wendy’s passing. We went to elementary and high school together. We were neighbors in Woodbridge. We lost contact after we finished school. She was a very sweet soul.
Kye & Jake Johnson says
Sending so many hugs to all of you.
I always remember Aunt Wendy with a big beautiful smile on her face.
I know that there aren’t really words to help what you guys are going through- for who you are missing. But please know that you are not alone, and we are here for you.
I love you all very much. I’m so sorry for her loss.
Audrey & Alex says
We are so sad to learn of Wendy’s passing! Our deepest condolences to you, Erika, Ben and the family.
Are thoughts are with you.
Mai Tran says
To my dear friend Wendy,
Today I learned of your passing, and my heart is heavy. It was a great privilege to know you and to work alongside such a sweet and caring colleague.
You shared so generously with me—your favorite recipes, your garden tips, your work experiences, and most of all, your friendship and profound insights. Everything is still so fresh in my memory, especially your beautiful smile, which stayed with us until your very last day.
Thank you for the love you poured into your life and into everyone around you. You made our world brighter.
May you rest in peace. And may the Lord bless and comfort your beloved family—Tom, Ericka, Ben, and your grandchildren.
With love and deepest sympathy,
Mai
Bert and Rachel Weeda says
We offer our sincere condolences Tom to you and your whole family!
I prayed every night for Wendy as she was battling het cancer so bravely!
We will always remember Wendy’s warm, welcoming smile!
Wendy is definitely an Angel now!
I, Rachel cannot personally attend Wendy’s Celebration of Life, however my spirit will be there!
Sending lots of Love ❤️ and Hugs !
Hana Parlesak says
Wendy? I remember her as a lovely woman with warm, gentle personality and a beautiful smile. It is unbelievably sad she cannot share it anymore.
My deepest condolences to Tom and Friedrich family.
Ron Weeda says
Our deepest sympathy. Words can never express the ache we feel in our hearts for you, Tom and your kids ( grown as they are) Erica and Ben. We all have fond memories of being with Wendy and will miss her warm embrace, bubbly personality and caring heart. She may have lost a battle but I truly believe she will win the war and we’ll see her in paradise.
Steve and Jill Pollock says
It is difficult to put our thoughts into words. It is a very sad time. We will remember Wendy’s warm and welcoming smile and the way she could make you feel so comfortable in her presence. We are grateful for having known her. The world would be a nicer place if there were more people like Wendy in it.
Rachel Pherson & James Harper says
We are so so sorry for your loss, Friedrich family. Wendy was such a wonderful soul and she will be missed greatly x
Pat Burley says
This past Sunday, (April 12th), I learned of the passing of my dear friend and colleague, a resilient warrior who faced cancer with unwavering courage. Though many people pass through our lives, some leave, an indelible mark, forever changing us for the better. Your impact on my life has been profound, and I am deeply grateful for the time we shared. Thank you, Wendy for being a source of inspiration. May your legacy live on in our hearts. Condolences to Tom, Ben, Erika, Mazikeen, Colter and family. They were the loves of your life.. RIP❤️Love Pat, Don, Megan, Jennifer, Mark, Grayson and Mykenzie
Nick and Karen Munroe says
My heart is broken at the loss of a friend so dear as Wendy, we met at work when I was 22 and Wendy 18. And continued working together until her retirement in 2021. After her retirement we stayed in touch right up until her illness made it impossible to communicate. She was a brave and fearless woman who faced life with a passion and gentle strength.
She was a dear friend to everyone who knew and loved her. Wendy adoredTom, her high school sweetheart and adored her two children and cherished her grandchildren; these were the things that were most important to Wendy.
We will miss our dear friend. The world is a little less bright without her in it.
Heidi Jordan says
Our condolences to Paul Weeda, in this sad loss of his sister and Our condolences to the Friedrich and Weeda families in the sad loss of Wendy.
Monica R says
Gone too soon,but never forgotten. Rest in peace my friend
Kusum Kaloty says
Help my dear friend Wendy,
I am so glad that you walked into my life about 20 some years ago.
You will be missed terribly and I have not met a gentler, kind, loving and compassionate person than you .
I am so sorry for the loss that we are all experiencing now but knowing you are at peace gives me peace. Love you my friend and goodbye until we meet again.
Rest in peace,❤️❤️❤️
Alexander Walser says
In loving memory of Wendy,
with great sadness we learned of Wendy’s passing. Please accept our sincere and heartfelt condolences.
Words can hardly ease the pain of losing someone so dearly loved. But we hope that the many beautiful memories of Wendy will bring you comfort and stay with you during this difficult time. What remains is the love she gave and the memory of shared moments that will live on forever in the hearts of those who knew her.
Even though many miles separate us, our thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you. We wish you strength, comfort, and togetherness in the days and weeks ahead. May the memory of Wendy bring you warmth and carry you through this time of sorrow.
In loving memory and with heartfelt sympathy,
The Walser family from Germany
Alexander, Janine, Lilli, Dirk, Manuela, Sigfried and Hildegard
and the Wildhardt family
Pam weeda says
I had the privilege of meeting Wendy after Ron and I got married. We went to Canada so that I could meet his siblings. I got to visit with her several times she invited us to her home and was very hospitable. She was a very bubbly, friendly, sweet and kind sister-in-law that I wish I could’ve known better. I am grateful that I have the chance to meet her.
Rachel Mcgeachy says
I’m very sorry for your loss. I had the opportunity to work with Wendy and will remember her fondly. Thinking of your family during this difficult time.
Candice says
Our hearts are with you Erika, our arms are around you and your entire family. We are so so sorry for your loss. We love you and we are here always & forever.
Love,
Candice, Zoe & Trott Family
Clarice Goetz says
My heart goes out to the whole Friedrich family in the wake of this heartbreaking loss. My deepest sympathies to Uncle Tom, Ben and Erika. Wendy was a warm, special and truly funny person, who always had a kind word to offer to me and my siblings. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and Wendy is forever in our hearts. May she rest in peace.